Author Topic: wife rejects natural family planning (Read 31329 times)

Tiffany · « **Reply #140 on:** August 02, 2013, 09:45:42 PM »

Quote from: Zeitun

Quote from: Tiffany
Zeutin I'm not getting into a ___ contest with someone on the internet. It's a public board, if you want to repost my posts, you are free to. I try to reject feminism and try to especially encourage young women towards traditional values when I interact with them.

Again a person doesn't need to be married to recognize feminism.

Tiffany,

You've not been shy about posting details of your disordered life. Perhaps you should take Our Lord's advice and not judge as the hypocrites do. It's certainly not the womanly thing to do to accuse others of feminism without first examining your own conscience.

God bless!!!! :cheers:

Attack me all you want. It's not judging "as the hypocrites do" to call our feminist thought.

Tiffany · « **Reply #141 on:** August 02, 2013, 10:05:20 PM »

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Tiffany · « **Reply #142 on:** August 02, 2013, 10:09:28 PM »

Quote from: Telesphorus

"He was controlling, so I had to leave him" - how many so-called trads will accept that excuse at face value from women - how many Catholic men see themselves blamed for their wives abandoning the religion and abandoning their responsibilities?

I don't think it's an exaggeration to say this justification of women's horrible behavior and their knowledge that interlopers will support them, even at their own church, for breaking up their families, is one of the major reasons for the high divorce rate, particularly for religious men.

Being a pious man means getting a kick in the teeth from the liberals in the congregation when the worst happens.

Quote from: Zeitun

Please see the big picture and know that the devil's goal here is to split you up. Your priority must be your soul and the soul of your wife. Even if she has the IUD removed she may still divorce you because of the real issue--control. While you are the head of the family, in your heavy-handedness, you haven't loved her as Christ loves the Church. You rule her with an iron rod instead of with tender mercy.

It's his fault for his heavy-handedness and not loving her.

Conspiracy_Factist · « **Reply #143 on:** August 02, 2013, 10:26:24 PM »

Quote from: ggreg

Gooch, according to the other thread you converted around two years ago or less.

So it's not like your wife married you with a full and frank understanding of what she was letting himself in for. You weren't from a family of 9 kids with all of your brothers and sisters having 6 or more.

From her perspective you have moved the goalposts on her. She was at least a decade into a marriage where she thought she could use contraception and all of a suddenly she is not only dealing with a convert's zeal (famous for causing these and other problems) but a bunch of other stuff like trousers, broccoli and inoculations.

Blimey man, can't you see what has happened here?

Turn the dial back a little. Turn the volume down. Let her slowly absorb the new you.

With that I wish you luck and I have deals to do.

yes I have moved the goal posts on her, not sure though are you advocating I give in to her? when you say turn the volume down I believe i am doing that, but unless I give in I don't see how else I can turn the dial back...as for trading in other issues for this one that won't fly, she's into the organic food, I don' force her to go to the mass every sunday..she understands the kids will never be vaccinated again...

Novus Weirdo · « **Reply #144 on:** August 02, 2013, 10:26:49 PM »

Quote from: Tiffany

Quote from: Telesphorus
"He was controlling, so I had to leave him" - how many so-called trads will accept that excuse at face value from women - how many Catholic men see themselves blamed for their wives abandoning the religion and abandoning their responsibilities?

I don't think it's an exaggeration to say this justification of women's horrible behavior and their knowledge that interlopers will support them, even at their own church, for breaking up their families, is one of the major reasons for the high divorce rate, particularly for religious men.

Being a pious man means getting a kick in the teeth from the liberals in the congregation when the worst happens.

Quote from: Zeitun

Please see the big picture and know that the devil's goal here is to split you up. Your priority must be your soul and the soul of your wife. Even if she has the IUD removed she may still divorce you because of the real issue--control. While you are the head of the family, in your heavy-handedness, you haven't loved her as Christ loves the Church. You rule her with an iron rod instead of with tender mercy.

It's his fault for his heavy-handedness and not loving her.

How presumptuous.