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I have asked him what I can do. He says there is nothing I can do besides give him space and hug him when he is willing to be hugged. He says I regulate his nervous system.

I hug him, I kiss him, I do things to console him. I have forgiven him. I am not nasty towards him, nor do I harbour resentment. I had an abusive father and he relied on me for emotional comfort since I was a child, I am well seasoned in consoling others. I’ve always been know by others to be the fixer and peacemaker.

I have consulted priests, and they have either said to have children because babies soften men, or bear my cross.

I’m not purposely ignoring questions, I honestly haven’t seen them or have forgotten, I’m overloaded with info right now.

We have been married 4 years.

Another priest told me to avoid certain topics which I try to do, but my husband likes to give speeches and forces me to answer questions about things, not allowing me to change the subject.

Also I was very transparent about my possible infertility, telling him my symptoms. He said he was alright with it and would be happy if it were just the two of us, which is why his behaviour now is really shocking to me.

hug him when he is willing to be hugged.

I’m overloaded with info right now.