Given my particular difficulties with the seminary formation, I do not believe that the religious life of a brother or monk is the Will of God for me either. So after further prayer, consideration, and consultation, I have decided to prepare for the married state.
This part had me scratching my head. What "difficulties"? He does realize that he was not in a real seminary, right? Being turned-off of the whole experience there does NOT mean one doesn't have a vocation.
And how long was he thinking about this? He hasn't tried a single REAL monastery or seminary, and yet he jumps to the conclusion that the married life is the life for him. Usually that's conveyed by God sending the right person. I wonder how he met someone so quickly. Online? Or did he meet her "in his travels" as a seminarian, since I know Fr. Pfeiffer loved to travel the country, often with his seminarians.
Most of all, I've never heard the expression "prepare for the married state". What does that mean exactly? Sign up for CatholicMatch.com? Seriously, it smacks of rashness and impetuosity. When you want to try out a priestly or religious vocation, you run off to the monastery or Seminary. There is no other way to investigate that vocation. But there is no equivalent thing you "do" to pursue a married "vocation". You just live your life, while praying, discerning, etc. always being docile and open to God's will.
Not saying he DOES have a vocation. But attending a literal joke of a seminary for 5 years doesn't prove it one way or the other. That is a fact.
But while we're talking about facts, it's very possible that Stephen Kaldawi is one more tick mark under "Vocations destroyed by Fr. Pfeiffer".
But let's be real: as soon as a particular girl enters the picture, no young man is going to be objective about other possible vocations besides marriage. That's why you're supposed to investigate/try out a religious or priestly vocation BEFORE you get emotionally involved with The One.