What do you consider 'fit'? A man could be strong in lifting weights but get tired from a short sprint etc. Or someone could have good endurance but have 'weak' strength.

Fit to me is just being healthy, eating healthy, staying in shape, and having a healthy heart. A man who can lift weights but gets tired by a short sprint is unhealthy, it doesn't matter if he is ripped. I'd be concerned about his heart health, probably too much cholesterol in his diet. 

Today, many people are damagingly protective of their children. They need to struggle in order to grow in understanding of life in this valley of tears.

This is so true.

Are you asking about my preference or scientifically?

What do you consider 'fit'? A man could be strong in lifting weights but get tired from a short sprint etc. Or someone could have good endurance but have 'weak' strength.

The brainwashing is not just in gender studies, but permeates all subjects and the atmosphere. I don’t believe that it will prepare a woman for marriage, which seems to be what you are contemplating.

Regarding your hating the thought of your prospective kids struggling financially, there are many people who think like you.

I am of the opposite opinion.

My three children all worked in menial jobs while still in homeschooling, all three did a crash course in a trade of their interest while still homeschooling, all three had to move far from home at 17 to pursue their living. They always had to contribute to household work and expenses while they were still at home.

All three are happy, mature and balanced, all happy in the vocation they chose of the own volition.

Today, many people are damagingly protective of their children. They need to struggle in order to grow in understanding of life in this valley of tears.

^^^^ what she said. CULTIVATION OF VIRTUE

When I meant college I didn't mean gender studies, I meant real jobs that require a degree. I agree that college is a scam 90% of the time, but what I was trying to say is that I just want me and my future potential husband to be ready for the future. I don't know about other women, but for myself, I just hate the thought of my kids struggling financially.

The brainwashing is not just in gender studies, but permeates all subjects and the atmosphere. I don’t believe that it will prepare a woman for marriage, which seems to be what you are contemplating.

Regarding your hating the thought of your prospective kids struggling financially, there are many people who think like you.

I am of the opposite opinion.

My three children all worked in menial jobs while still in homeschooling, all three did a crash course in a trade of their interest while still homeschooling, all three had to move far from home at 17 to pursue their living. They always had to contribute to household work and expenses while they were still at home. 

All three are happy, mature and balanced, all happy in the vocation they chose of the own volition. 

Today, many people are damagingly protective of their children. They need to struggle in order to grow in understanding of life in this valley of tears.