What it basically comes down to Marcelino, is women denying that they can be held accountable for any action, while insisting that they be permitted to make the most grievous accusations, demands for the punishment or ostracism of any man they find annoying, regardless of the truth, with immunity.
It is totalitarian.
And another aspect, is that they don't want "betas" to touch them. So if girls in high school are being used and abused by certain boys of loathsome character, this is just high school fun.
But if a 25 year old "loser" might be seduced by a 17 year old girl. That's "rape."
ie, the guilt of the man depends on his social position, on the shame induced in the woman for consenting to intercourse with, or not having power over, a lesser "beta" male.