Author Topic: wife rejects natural family planning (Read 38091 times)

parentsfortruth · « **Reply #20 on:** July 30, 2013, 11:41:22 PM »

Copyright 2006, Pope Paul VI Institute for the Study of Human Reproduction. All rights reserved.

Tarpeian, you're not going to make friends here linking crap like this.

Paul VI was a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ. Last thing people want to read is about a birth control method that's name is somehow attached to this disgraceful human being.

Conspiracy_Factist · « **Reply #21 on:** July 31, 2013, 04:28:52 PM »

Quote from: Tarpeian

Quote from: gooch
Presently my better half has the iud, I've been staying away but it's getting desperate now, I gave her a link to the cervical mucus method which she read up on and says no way she would do it, are there any other methods that we;re missing which are better? also if anyone has any church teachings that absolve the man from any mortal sin when he has relations with a wife who uses contraception I'm all ears, for now I believe it would be a mortal sin for me to have relations with the wife.

IMHO the best avenue is to find someone who teaches the Creighton Method, and go together to the class. I think there is a wonderful chance you're wife will be amazed at what Creighton has to offer. I would be willing to talk to you both of you, if you feel comfortable. Creighton blew me away, and it made our marriage much stronger.

Pax,
Tarpeian

I never heard of that, will have to do some research, although right now not sure she's ready to attend any class

Conspiracy_Factist · « **Reply #22 on:** July 31, 2013, 04:30:00 PM »

Quote from: Capt McQuigg

Quote from: Tarpeian
Quote from: gooch
Presently my better half has the iud, I've been staying away but it's getting desperate now, I gave her a link to the cervical mucus method which she read up on and says no way she would do it, are there any other methods that we;re missing which are better? also if anyone has any church teachings that absolve the man from any mortal sin when he has relations with a wife who uses contraception I'm all ears, for now I believe it would be a mortal sin for me to have relations with the wife.

IMHO the best avenue is to find someone who teaches the Creighton Method, and go together to the class. I think there is a wonderful chance you're wife will be amazed at what Creighton has to offer. I would be willing to talk to you both of you, if you feel comfortable. Creighton blew me away, and it made our marriage much stronger.

Pax,
Tarpeian

Are you guys talking about ways to engage in conjugal acts while removing the possibility of pregnancy?

she is so I'm stuck, I'm open o morekids but she isn't

Capt McQuigg · « **Reply #23 on:** July 31, 2013, 04:56:45 PM »

Quote from: gooch

Quote from: Capt McQuigg
Quote from: Tarpeian
Quote from: gooch
Presently my better half has the iud, I've been staying away but it's getting desperate now, I gave her a link to the cervical mucus method which she read up on and says no way she would do it, are there any other methods that we;re missing which are better? also if anyone has any church teachings that absolve the man from any mortal sin when he has relations with a wife who uses contraception I'm all ears, for now I believe it would be a mortal sin for me to have relations with the wife.

IMHO the best avenue is to find someone who teaches the Creighton Method, and go together to the class. I think there is a wonderful chance you're wife will be amazed at what Creighton has to offer. I would be willing to talk to you both of you, if you feel comfortable. Creighton blew me away, and it made our marriage much stronger.

Pax,
Tarpeian

Are you guys talking about ways to engage in conjugal acts while removing the possibility of pregnancy?

she is so I'm stuck, I'm open o morekids but she isn't

Consult a priest about that - any (even novus ordo) - and then tell us what kind of advice you received.

I think you may need to take drastic measures but I'm holding my tongue for the time being.

Conspiracy_Factist · « **Reply #24 on:** July 31, 2013, 05:47:06 PM »

Quote from: poche

You are absolved of culpability if your wife insists on using artificial contraception against your objections. Love her. Pray for her. Remember there are the things that we can control and there are the things that we cannot control and it is true wisdom to know the difference.

I'd like to think you're right, but I don't see that in church teaching, do you have any teachings that confirm this point of view?