Author Topic: wife rejects natural family planning (Read 31024 times)

Conspiracy_Factist · « **on:** July 29, 2013, 04:38:43 PM »

Presently my better half has the iud, I've been staying away but it's getting desperate now, I gave her a link to the cervical mucus method which she read up on and says no way she would do it, are there any other methods that we;re missing which are better? also if anyone has any church teachings that absolve the man from any mortal sin when he has relations with a wife who uses contraception I'm all ears, for now I believe it would be a mortal sin for me to have relations with the wife.

songbird · « **Reply #1 on:** July 29, 2013, 06:49:56 PM »

St. Anthony of Padua preached to help convert the people. He found that trying to prove wrong in people did not work. He brought them to sorrow.

I myself would like to know how that is accomplished. The Cure de Ars, certainly brought his people to their knees. He fasted because the devil hated that and the Cure cried when there was sin and such.

I read his book and I was just fascinated by the powers of God. Travelers said they didn't even recognize the city of Ars. They expected stores open on Sunday and people in the fields working only to find a very quiet city on Sunday.

parentsfortruth · « **Reply #2 on:** July 29, 2013, 06:57:53 PM »

Quote from: gooch

Presently my better half has the iud, I've been staying away but it's getting desperate now, I gave her a link to the cervical mucus method which she read up on and says no way she would do it, are there any other methods that we;re missing which are better? also if anyone has any church teachings that absolve the man from any mortal sin when he has relations with a wife who uses contraception I'm all ears, for now I believe it would be a mortal sin for me to have relations with the wife.

Have you even talked to a priest about this yet?

Conspiracy_Factist · « **Reply #3 on:** July 29, 2013, 07:01:06 PM »

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Quote from: gooch
Presently my better half has the iud, I've been staying away but it's getting desperate now, I gave her a link to the cervical mucus method which she read up on and says no way she would do it, are there any other methods that we;re missing which are better? also if anyone has any church teachings that absolve the man from any mortal sin when he has relations with a wife who uses contraception I'm all ears, for now I believe it would be a mortal sin for me to have relations with the wife.

Have you even talked to a priest about this yet?

my priest mentioned family planning, I gave my wife a link and she read up on it and freaked out.

parentsfortruth · « **Reply #4 on:** July 29, 2013, 07:33:26 PM »

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Quote from: gooch
Presently my better half has the iud, I've been staying away but it's getting desperate now, I gave her a link to the cervical mucus method which she read up on and says no way she would do it, are there any other methods that we;re missing which are better? also if anyone has any church teachings that absolve the man from any mortal sin when he has relations with a wife who uses contraception I'm all ears, for now I believe it would be a mortal sin for me to have relations with the wife.

Have you even talked to a priest about this yet?

my priest mentioned family planning, I gave my wife a link and she read up on it and freaked out.

Then you need to tell the priest her reaction, and ask him what to do next.