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What is it that attracts them?

Drolo, you have asked the age-old question here. Men don't know, and women don't either. Lol.

I'm tempted to red pill you, but I don't want to discourage you. Take care of yourself mentally,  physically,  financially, and, most important, spiritually. Pray to Our Mother to guide you, and everything will work out. All will be well, my friend.

I wish you the best, man. If God's will is for you to start a family, He will bring you and your wife together.

Remember, no one will ever love you more than God, and no woman will ever love you more than Our Mother.

Drolo asked what attracts a good woman. 

I'm an old bag, and not in the running for anything but a happy death; yet I will answer, and negatively. 

What turns me off the most with men is cowardice and weakness of any kind. 

Examples of cowardice and weakness:

Neglect of duties and obligations of state.

Heathenish self indulgence, especially of the carnal and gluttonous kind; and using others to convenience himself.

Laziness, especially letting others do for him what he should be doing for himself. 

Bad or unattractive habits that show an inability to practice temperance and self-denial.

Un-handiness. I would never look for college degrees in a man I respected, but I would find abilities and skills. I respect men that can fix things, and that, though not formally educated, have educated themselves. I'd much rather be married to a thinking plumber than to a human respecting executive. 

Human respect of any kind. 

Predominance of passion in the personality and in the decisions he makes, especially anger, self-loathing, and blaming others. 

Lack of a religion-induced nobility of ideals and conduct. 

Forgive me for not offering an actual answer to your question, but have you seriously considered the religious or priestly vocation?

Honestly, I don't see myself as a priest and I don't have any sign of that is my vocation.

Monk? Maybe, I don't know.