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« Reply #60 on: September 16, 2010, 04:41:17 PM »
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    Padre Pio would not even hear your confession if your skirt was not at least 8 inches below the knee.

    Fact.


    May I be so bold as to say, he was wrong about that?? Yes, I am claiming to know better. Shocking, I know.


    But why?


    Because it is not what the Church demands.

    A skirt must reach below the knee, agreed.  However, to turn away a woman whose skirt reaches "only" 5 inches below the knee is just wrong.

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    « Reply #61 on: September 16, 2010, 05:45:27 PM »
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    It's still illogical.

    Skirts must reach below the knees. They needn't reach the ankles.

    So why are tights forbidden, and bare legs not? If the legs are covered to below the knee by a skirt, why does it matter?


    Padre Pio would not even hear your confession if your skirt was not at least 8 inches below the knee.

    Fact.


    May I be so bold as to say, he was wrong about that?? Yes, I am claiming to know better. Shocking, I know.

    And if your skirt reaches 8 inches below the knee, why does it matter if you're wearing tights or not??

    I just cannot fathom the reasoning.


    You can say he was wrong all you want.

    The fact is, he could not SEE who was coming into the confessional, so how do you explain the fact that he KNEW if you were dressed immodestly...?

    He didn't see anyone, and he told you to GET OUT of the confessional if you had a skirt too short! How did he know this? Because he had the gift of knowing it! So, would God hold him accountable for the fact that he was "wrong" if he didn't hear someone's confession if they weren't doing anything wrong?

    How do you explain he's a saint now, if he chastised people for doing something that wasn't even wrong at all?

    I don't know the extent of his visions and conversations with Our Lord. You'd think if he were erroneous for sending women that were immodestly dressed away from the confessional, Our Lord would have admonished him for sending women of good will away from the confessional if what they were wearing was not, in fact, immodest.

    Just sayin'.
    Matthew 5:37

    But let your speech be yea, yea: no, no: and that which is over and above these, is of evil.

    My Avatar is Fr. Hector Bolduc. He was a faithful parish priest in De Pere, WI,


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    « Reply #62 on: September 16, 2010, 05:49:08 PM »
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  • Quote from:  Padre Pio
    Sometimes when Padre Pio refused to absolve his penitents and closed the small confessional door in their faces, the people would reproach him asking why he acted this way.  "Don't you know," he asked, "what pain it costs me to shut the door on anyone?  The Lord has forced me to do so.  I do not call anyone, nor do I refuse anyone either.  There is someone else who calls and refuses them.  I am His useless tool."


    So it was, in fact, Our Lord that advised him to turn people away!
    Matthew 5:37

    But let your speech be yea, yea: no, no: and that which is over and above these, is of evil.

    My Avatar is Fr. Hector Bolduc. He was a faithful parish priest in De Pere, WI,

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    « Reply #63 on: September 16, 2010, 05:50:58 PM »
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    It's still illogical.

    Skirts must reach below the knees. They needn't reach the ankles.

    So why are tights forbidden, and bare legs not? If the legs are covered to below the knee by a skirt, why does it matter?


    Padre Pio would not even hear your confession if your skirt was not at least 8 inches below the knee.

    Fact.


    May I be so bold as to say, he was wrong about that?? Yes, I am claiming to know better. Shocking, I know.

    And if your skirt reaches 8 inches below the knee, why does it matter if you're wearing tights or not??

    I just cannot fathom the reasoning.


    You can say he was wrong all you want.

    The fact is, he could not SEE who was coming into the confessional, so how do you explain the fact that he KNEW if you were dressed immodestly...?

    He didn't see anyone, and he told you to GET OUT of the confessional if you had a skirt too short! How did he know this? Because he had the gift of knowing it! So, would God hold him accountable for the fact that he was "wrong" if he didn't hear someone's confession if they weren't doing anything wrong?

    How do you explain he's a saint now, if he chastised people for doing something that wasn't even wrong at all?

    I don't know the extent of his visions and conversations with Our Lord. You'd think if he were erroneous for sending women that were immodestly dressed away from the confessional, Our Lord would have admonished him for sending women of good will away from the confessional if what they were wearing was not, in fact, immodest.

    Just sayin'.


    Such a good explanation!

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    « Reply #64 on: September 16, 2010, 05:56:54 PM »
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  • Ladies!  Ladies!

    Just wear what you want.  If you want to dress like a sleaze, by all means do so.  After all, it's in the heart that counts, right?   You're a good person with a good heart, isn't that so?  So what if you are an occasion of sin to men and are the cause of their sinning mortally because your slit is up to your wazoo, your shirt is too tight, and you never bothered to check just what can be seen through it.  

    And put those pants on.  Don't let any one tell you how you can and/or can't dress.  Be comfortable by all means.   After all, times have changed and we're no longer in that stodgy Victorian Age.  

    What does the Church know anyway?  That Pope Pius XII, he should just stick to faith business and keep his nose out of ladies' fashions.

    So, bare those boobs, show that thigh, don those sweats and jeans -- live it up.  Life is short!

     :cheers: :sign-party-time:  :wine-drinking:


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    « Reply #65 on: September 16, 2010, 06:21:44 PM »
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  • Gee... you sounded like a real Modernistic woman...

    And Pope Pius XII's business was to ensure that the Faith lives in every Catholic heart.

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    « Reply #66 on: September 16, 2010, 07:31:58 PM »
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    Gee... you sounded like a real Modernistic woman...

    And Pope Pius XII's business was to ensure that the Faith lives in every Catholic heart.


    Bless your heart, Joan.  You are correct.  Those are the sentiments of a "real Modernistic woman".  

    Now what would I be doing here if that is the way I truly felt?   :wink:

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    « Reply #67 on: September 16, 2010, 07:40:45 PM »
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  • There is a link in this thread where it talks about him and what he said about modesty, Joan.
    Matthew 5:37

    But let your speech be yea, yea: no, no: and that which is over and above these, is of evil.

    My Avatar is Fr. Hector Bolduc. He was a faithful parish priest in De Pere, WI,


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    « Reply #68 on: September 16, 2010, 08:00:51 PM »
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  • Link to page with Vatican's original standards on Marylike standards for modesty, and a prayer to Mary for purity:

    http://www.salvemariaregina.info/Modesty.html
    St. Jude, who, disregarding the threats of the impious, courageously preached the doctrine of Christ,
    pray for us.

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    « Reply #69 on: September 17, 2010, 03:01:18 AM »
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    How do you explain he's a saint now, if he chastised people for doing something that wasn't even wrong at all?


    Saints do that kind of thing.

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    « Reply #70 on: September 17, 2010, 03:06:44 AM »
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    "A dress cannot be called decent which is cut deeper than two fingers breadth under the pit of the throat; which does not cover the arms at least to the elbows; and scarcely reaches a bit beyond the knees. Furthermore, dresses of transparent materials are improper."

    --The Cardinal Vicar of Pope Pius XI


    Four, five, six, seven inches below the knee is more than "scarcely a bit".


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    « Reply #71 on: September 17, 2010, 03:11:55 AM »
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    Ladies!  Ladies!

    Just wear what you want.  If you want to dress like a sleaze, by all means do so.  After all, it's in the heart that counts, right?   You're a good person with a good heart, isn't that so?  So what if you are an occasion of sin to men and are the cause of their sinning mortally because your slit is up to your wazoo, your shirt is too tight, and you never bothered to check just what can be seen through it.  

    And put those pants on.  Don't let any one tell you how you can and/or can't dress.  Be comfortable by all means.   After all, times have changed and we're no longer in that stodgy Victorian Age.  

    What does the Church know anyway?  That Pope Pius XII, he should just stick to faith business and keep his nose out of ladies' fashions.

    So, bare those boobs, show that thigh, don those sweats and jeans -- live it up.  Life is short!

     :cheers: :sign-party-time:  :wine-drinking:


    All I said was that turning away a woman in a skirt which is five inches below the knee, is wrong!

    So, why extrapolate from that that, to see nothing wrong with a skirt that is "that short" (ie five inches below the knee) necessarily means that one thinks that a woman can wear whatever she likes, without giving a thought to being an occasion of sin to the menfolk?

    And it was not Pope Pius XII who specified eight inches below the knee. It was St Padre Pio. I am not aware of any Pope who made such a stipulation.

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    « Reply #72 on: September 17, 2010, 09:53:50 AM »
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    How do you explain he's a saint now, if he chastised people for doing something that wasn't even wrong at all?


    Saints do that kind of thing.


    Really? I would love to hear some examples. :)
    Matthew 5:37

    But let your speech be yea, yea: no, no: and that which is over and above these, is of evil.

    My Avatar is Fr. Hector Bolduc. He was a faithful parish priest in De Pere, WI,

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    « Reply #73 on: September 17, 2010, 12:20:53 PM »
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    Ladies!  Ladies!

    Just wear what you want.  If you want to dress like a sleaze, by all means do so.  After all, it's in the heart that counts, right?   You're a good person with a good heart, isn't that so?  So what if you are an occasion of sin to men and are the cause of their sinning mortally because your slit is up to your wazoo, your shirt is too tight, and you never bothered to check just what can be seen through it.  

    And put those pants on.  Don't let any one tell you how you can and/or can't dress.  Be comfortable by all means.   After all, times have changed and we're no longer in that stodgy Victorian Age.  

    What does the Church know anyway?  That Pope Pius XII, he should just stick to faith business and keep his nose out of ladies' fashions.

    So, bare those boobs, show that thigh, don those sweats and jeans -- live it up.  Life is short!

     :cheers: :sign-party-time:  :wine-drinking:

    Alexandria, sometimes you remind me of me so much, it's getting down right scary.  Well written tongue in cheek post, but next time you might think about adding a disclaimer for some of our non-U.S. forum members.  As you read, Joan didn't understand  your sarcastic wit.  Now as far as myself, I thought you wrote an excellent post, just dripping with sarcasm in all the right places.  You aren't by chance a closet N.O.? :roll-laugh1:  

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    « Reply #74 on: September 17, 2010, 12:48:08 PM »
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    Joan didn't understand your sarcastic wit.


    No, but she gave the perfect response and made my point.   :wink:


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    You aren't by chance a closet N.O.?


    Heavens, no!   But I suspect there may be some here who are ( :wink:).  I haven't worn pants in almost twenty years.    :cool: