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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #195 on: Today at 06:04:03 AM »
I am sorry for misunderstanding.

The dynamics? 

The best dynamic is praying and trusting God.  Every single couple story is different from everyone else's.  The only common denominator in successful Catholic marriages is that the man and woman trusted God to find their match.
No, good marriages have many things in common. wives who inspire, admire, and love their husbands and are also obedient, and do not nag. Husbands who also love their wives and make sure to show it among other things. A wife can do the above but if the husband is a fool he won't respond to it properly.

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Re: Chrysostom on finding a wife...
« Reply #196 on: Today at 06:17:01 AM »
No, good marriages have many things in common. wives who inspire, admire, and love their husbands and are also obedient, and do not nag. Husbands who also love their wives and make sure to show it among other things. A wife can do the above but if the husband is a fool he won't respond to it properly.
The bold is only half the story.  A husband can do the above but if the wife is ....  Are you able to fill this in and make it fair?


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« Reply #197 on: Today at 07:42:36 AM »
Hypocrite, virtue-signalling woman.
Be careful. When a person feels overwhelmed by the real enemy, whether due to the enemy's threat of blatant violence or to a constant stream of mind-poisoning emotional manipulation, then it becomes tempting to dump on and trash whomever else one finds irritating,whether or not the substitute target truly deserves it.

In simple terms, if you can't defeat the real problem, pick on someone else. It's exactly how the SoS and their infernal boss have always destroyed families and nations. And yet you fall for it and lash out at the easiest target.

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« Reply #198 on: Today at 07:55:39 AM »
I am sorry.  You are right.  I talk a lot on here.  You are lucky I don't text everything I think or feel. :cowboy:

Imagine what my poor husband has to go through.  He knows how to love though, so I know I have a good man.  :cowboy:

No it's not fine for women to be catty.  It's not fine for anyone to bully anyone. 

I understand why men get frustrated with this.

But when men post ad nauseum about how women should behave, why are they surprised that the women get defensive?

I wish there were some men who would post about how men are supposed to love.  I thought they were supposed to love like Christ did.  That means die for women.  That means forgive women for their bad behavior.

The men demand submission.  Don't the women get to demand love?
Because all public interactions are by definition happening in a MALE realm. This is God's law. Get used to it and accept it fully in your heart. Never mind that lots of self-labeled trad women refuse this essential fact.. Women participate insofar as they contribute helpfully, not when they insist on swaying the conversation, changing the subject, making everything about them, antagonizing and chasing away moderate voices by wearing them down, etc.

Then all that remains on screen are the rightly-angered men who refuse to be verbally castrated, the swarm of longskirted mean girls who wear the pants on their souls if not on  their bodies, and the aghast rubber-neckers who need to resolve to attend to daily obligations IRL instead of gawking at this never-ending train wreck.

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« Reply #199 on: Today at 08:07:40 AM »
Always love when women bring up the whole "husband must love thing"

Point out to them that love involves correction and chastisement and they run a mile.