Stubborn:
His 'Golden Rule; “Do whatever you need to nourish your faith", was his answer, not; "it is permissible to actively participate in the New Mass". And it came with so many cautions and warnings, that I fail to see how it could be possible to turn *that*, into "it is permissible to actively participate in the New Mass".
Here are just two of his remarks which prove the point:
"I would not say every single person must stay away from every single NO Mass."
"Therefore there are cases when even the Novus Ordo Mass can be attended with an effect of building one’s faith instead of losing it."
Stubborn:
I'm of the opinion that most trads today are trads, thanks to their participation with the NO.
No, most trads today are trads because Our Lord sent them the grace to see that what they were participating in was not a Catholic Mass.
You said it. That is what I was trying to say.
But the thing is, Our Lord sends graces all the time to those He knows will accept them - so the difference between NOers and former NOers, is that the former NOers accepted those graces.
If any grace at all comes from the new mass, it is the grace which prompts NOers to get outta there, but they must accept these graces. Anytime we accept graces, we nourish our faith.
I do not think it is wrong to say that it is possible for graces to come from the new mass, the reason I say this is because the one thing most adult trads have in common is that they were former NOers. In fact, that is perhaps the only thing they have in common. Based on that fact, I think it is therefore reasonable to opine that graces do in fact come from the new mass, the grace to open eyes and ears which start the feet walking on the path toward the true faith, hence out of the NO.
There is simply no other way for anyone of us to seek the truth, we must accept the graces God offers - period. No one finds the truth on their own, without the grace of God. We are entirely dependent upon Him to enlighten us through His graces, and He will enlighten us as long as we accept the graces offered.
Whether it was a heretical sermon, CITH, a prot song, the hand shake, abundant irreverence, etc., or something we read or a person we spoke with or a sermon we heard - whatever it was that made former NOers into trads, the one thing nearly all adult trads have in common is that they all participated, usually for many years, in the new mass.
As such, I find it curious and don't entirely understand why all the former NOers are condemning what +W said without even giving any consideration to the fact, that where the lady who asked the question is today, in all probability, they once were.
These former NOers all have one thing in common - they are all 'former NOers turned trads'. They did not leave the NO because of their own intelligence to see what they were participating in for 30 years or whatever was wrong, they did not leave the NO and become trads because of their own ability to *finally* conclude the NO was wrong - no, they *finally* accepted the graces which opened their eyes and ears, because if they didn't, they would not be trads.
Would the 'former NOers turned trad' ever have found the truth if they were never NOers? That is impossible for us to know, but one thing is certain, they all had that one thing in common, and it is from that fact that I opined:
I'm of the opinion that most trads today are trads, thanks to their participation with the NO. Anyway, even though +W certainly did not say what I said above, I am hoping that he meant something along those lines.