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... I just want a loving guy that loves the faith and is willing to sacrifice a lot for his kids.
I'd rather not talk about my personal life. But internally I just want a loving guy that loves the faith and is willing to sacrifice a lot for his kids.You might try developing a devotion to the Poor Souls in Purgatory...especially women who had a difficult marriage (and they still succeeded) and ask them to pray that God puts you in touch with the person He wants you to be with.
I'd rather not talk about my personal life. But internally I just want a loving guy that loves the faith and is willing to sacrifice a lot for his kids.I do believe that is what most women want.
I see lights in the sky every night. These lights do not move very fast. I call them starsIf we were living 100 years ago, you'd be right. Every light in the sky would be either a star, comet, or planet.
wouldn't they cast shadows on the earth?I don't know why stars don't cast shadows but this should happen on a flat or globe earth, so it's irrelevant to the flat earth topic.
It sounds like from the other posts you know what you want externally. Do you know who you are internally? If a spouse is not obvious right now and marriage looks like a bad idea, then what will you do with yourself while you are waiting? What does your family want you to do with yourself while waiting?I'd rather not talk about my personal life. But internally I just want a loving guy that loves the faith and is willing to sacrifice a lot for his kids.
There's numerous reasons why these satellite lights could go off. If you could see them, that means they were low enough in the atmosphere for planes to fly. So the lights might have to be on, for plane safety reasons. Once the satellites rose higher than airplane traffic, the lights weren't needed anymore, so they shut off.I see lights in the sky every night. These lights do not move very fast. I call them stars. What do you call them? If I can see these stars then "they are low enough in the atmosphere for planes to fly." Doesn't that then mean the stars are between the sun and the earth, wouldn't they cast shadows on the earth?
God hasn't revealed my calling yet, but that doesn't necessarily bother me. As for an example of a good marriage, I have no clue because everyone I have known growing up who is married has constant issues with their marriage. So I'm afraid to get married within the SSPX knowing that.. :/It sounds like from the other posts you know what you want externally. Do you know who you are internally? If a spouse is not obvious right now and marriage looks like a bad idea, then what will you do with yourself while you are waiting? What does your family want you to do with yourself while waiting?
I totally understand what you are saying.My parents raised me not to really trust men to begin with until they prove themselves. And I can see what you mean by the "forever" house not being realistic, but what I meant by that is just the knowledge of knowing we will never have to worry about being on the streets, you know?
When I was a teenager at school, the priest told us very clearly during a catechism course, "there are three states of life, not just two, religious vocation, marriage, and single, celibate life".
When a girl finished high school, she was encouraged to learn a feminine trade or go to Uni, because unless she had a vocation, there was no guarantee she was going to marry, or even marry relatively young. When girls in Tradition nowadays do NOTHING but babysitting, they tend to fall into the arms of the first guy who pays them some attention and it ends up in a disastrous marriage. Nor do they know how to manage a household budget, because they have never learnt how to do so... They are also totally unequipped to homeschool their children adequately. My sister and I both went to Uni and worked, and gave up working in a heartbeat before our first child was born. Good solid marriages, and lots of homeschooled children.
But now I look at the men around us and I wonder who on earth could my daughter marry?? If she doesn't have a vocation, she will probably end up single. And it won't be her fault...
One thing though: you are absolutely right to want to marry a man with a job (our priest won't even allow a man without a job to date), but a house is not a requirement, depending on where in the world you live. I understand that houses are pretty cheap in the USA still though. Also, "forever" is basically impossible these days, people often have to move 😊.
If you want a guy with financial security, marry older, otherwise you have to start slow (e.g. renting an apartment). If you want many kids, as a woman, you should marry young. Usually younger people can have more patience dealing with babies and children and the sleep deprivation and pregnancy is easier.Well if you know any men like that, who also doesnt believe in BOD or Bergolio, let me know. And when I mean work out, I literally just mean healthy, which for some reason, its super hard to find.
And when you say "work out", do you mean go to the gym or just lifting weights? Yeah, guys should do that to boost their testosterone.