I don't tolerate fat sows talking down to me...
Sorry, but if I were a young woman, I wouldn't want to speak with you now that I know the thoughts of your heart and your general attitude.
Some Suggestions: Get someone to video you after Mass as you socialize and talk with others. Be willing to have others make an honest assessment.
Is there a possibility you are on the autistic spectrum, ie. Aspergers, or social anxiety?
Even if your lack of humility is the main problem, there are classes in social skills and basic etiquette that can help as you work on the spiritual aspect.
Speak to your priest. Or to any happily married couple you'd consider to have the kind of relationship you want.
Make a list of ten traits you want in a wife. Order them from most important to least important. Then ask out women who meet the top three. See what happens.
Pray, pray, and pray some more.