You have to be patient, yet persistent. And remember, "no" doesn't mean "no." It just means "not yet."
Well, you're right about that. That's how we got Altar Girls, Lay "Ministers" of Holy Communion, Communion in the hand, and, in just a few more weeks, divorced and "remarried" "Catholics" officially permitted to receive Holy Communion.
What next? Open Sodomites officially permitted to receive Holy Communion? Woman Cadinals?
No (not yet).
Pardon me if I don't have "patience" to wait for the Modernist method of wearing down Church infrastructure until I finally get my way. That's how a spoiled child or a nagging wife operates - not a faithful Catholic who desires what Immemororial Tradition and St. Pius V's Quo Primum established in perpetuity as the One and Only Mass of the Latin Rite of the Roman Catholic Church.