I have so many NO friends who go to daily Mass, monthly confession or more, don't use contraception, say the rosary daily, etc. yet they are falling for the present deception both in the Church and in the world. They don't like Francis and they are waiting for the Church to be renewed.
It baffles me how God can allow it, yet I know of course His will is perfect.
Most who go to the NO have a cafeteria-Catholic approach to moral theology. They apply their "reason" to those old "dark ages" rules and determine "for themselves" whether something is really a sin or not. So in their "confessions," they conveniently skip over many of the Commandments.
For example, how many of those NO Catholics seriously try to avoid unnecessary buying and selling on Sunday or Holy Days of Obligation? How many of them "keep the day holy?" What I see with my NO "friends" are people who treat Sundays like any other day of the week, which by definition is profanation. When you tell them, they tell you that you are Pharisee and laugh at you. You tell them read any Catholic Catechism on the subject. They walk away or change the subject.