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Offline Polymath

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Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
« Reply #15 on: November 14, 2022, 10:42:53 AM »
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    Are we utilitarians? Is 'the end result' what makes something moral? Is there no moral difference between keeping a thief locked up in your basement and handing him off to the authorities? Imprisonment is the end result in both cases.

    A better analogy might be murder with a weapon vs. with one’s bare hands.

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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #16 on: November 14, 2022, 10:44:58 AM »
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  • A better analogy might be murder with a weapon vs. with one’s bare hands.

    But both are mortally sinful in all cases. Are you allowed to use your bare hands to close off someone's airway on some days of the month, but not others? ;)

    As the Scholastics say, "All comparisons limp, except in the point of comparison."
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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #17 on: November 14, 2022, 10:46:38 AM »
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  • I'm not a theologian, I don't play one on TV (or on CathInfo), and I won't presume to rule anything "definitively" in this NFP debate. I just want to point out ONE piece of stupidity from the Dimond Brothers, to make my point about them. This was quoted from their page against NFP:



    This is CLEARLY talking about artificial birth control, not NFP. Just saying. Carry on...
    I must be missing something, why is it clear that he is talking about "artificial" birth control?

    The purpose of NFP is to prevent the conception of offspring. 

    Seems clear to me.

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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #18 on: November 14, 2022, 10:49:47 AM »
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  • Ladislaus, here is the Deferrari translation of the passage in question:


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    Contra the translation you are using, the one I have produced says that if the intrinsic nature of the act is preserved, then the ends are duly ordered. So, which translation is correct?
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    As an accomplished Latinist, I imagine you will appreciate the original Latin as well:
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    The affably erudite Fr Vermeersch, who was Pius XI's chief moral consultant and the principal ghost-writer of the encyclical, was commissioned to release a small catechism of commentary on it. There is no greater human authority on the meaning of the encyclical, and he explains:


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    That is my case in brief. I have given it to you in this thread and this one. What is your rebuttal?
    I will look into it. It sounds like the most coherent argument I've heard so far. 

    Still, we're keeping in mind that the Magisterium is protected and the intention can only clarify something if it is unclear, I'll have a look at the Latin.

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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #19 on: November 14, 2022, 10:51:42 AM »
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  • But both are mortally sinful in all cases. Are you allowed to use your bare hands to close off someone's airway on some days of the month, but not others? ;)

    As the Scholastics say, "All comparisons limp, except in the point of comparison."
    That would be a valid argument if our position was that you must not perform the act during the infertile periods which is not our position. What matters is the purpose of the act.


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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #20 on: November 14, 2022, 10:52:27 AM »
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  • I will look into it. It sounds like the most coherent argument I've heard so far.

    Still, we're keeping in mind that the Magisterium is protected and the intention can only clarify something if it is unclear, I'll have a look at the Latin.
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    I'm sure Ladislaus can tell you what the Latin means ;) 
    "Be kind; do not seek the malicious satisfaction of having discovered an additional enemy to the Church... And, above all, be scrupulously truthful. To all, friends and foes alike, give that serious attention which does not misrepresent any opinion, does not distort any statement, does not mutilate any quotation. We need not fear to serve the cause of Christ less efficiently by putting on His spirit". (Vermeersch, 1913).

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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #21 on: November 14, 2022, 11:18:15 AM »
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  • If NFP is a moral good, then why have I seen marriages and relationships destroyed because couples had trouble being open to life, or if they felt they had too many children as is? Now, I have actually seen this happen over the years and so I know what I am talking about here. If the marital act is not in order and the spouses are not open to procreation, nothing but sorrow and anger enters the household. If you remove the purpose of something, you are left empty. All kinds of vices enter the home such as the husband having an addiction to pornography. I wonder if it was because the marital act was not being performed the way God intended? 

    I knew of one fertile couple. They had been married a good ten years. She had no miscarriages and conceived only once. They had an eight year old son. They were too busy openly talking about how NFP has changed their marriage and how it has helped them “get to know their bodies.” Did they mean her safe days? Safe from what…pregnancy? It makes you wonder. But when I looked at them, I could see quite clearly that the both of them could die of terror. Preventing pregnancy with INTENT TO DO SO is still preventing pregnancy, no matter how you do it! It is sinful to prevent because you do not want the responsibility of another child.

    I would be very careful when parties debate on Natural Family Planning because neither of us are the creators or “deciders” of the marital act. God has laid down rules for this stuff. Remember we are even wounded by Original Sin, if we have used NFP selfishly at least one or twice, we will do it again and then it is only a matter of time after that. sɛҳuąƖ pleasure is very powerful, I suggest we all stick with the Natural Law on this one. I understand that there are grave reasons for using NFP, but how many ACTUALLY have grave reasons? Almost none. Planned Parenthood does recommend NFP as a preventer. It makes me very sick to the stomach to think in using something that an evil organization recommends to women who clearly would use it to PREVENT PREGNANCY, so that they could have pleasure. sɛҳuąƖ pleasure is passing by but the souls of your children and the the souls which God wants to give you DO NOT.

    It’s funny because when I was ten years old, I actually frowned upon any kind of natural prevention of a pregnancy. I still frown today. 
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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #22 on: November 14, 2022, 11:20:30 AM »
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  • You got me curious -- does any major bishop, priest, or group share the Dimond Brothers view on NFP? Of course there is also the Dimonds' personal collection of Scripture and Papal quotes, which they claim backs up their position -- but (I hate to break it to them) that is very much open for debate.

    But that brings me back to my first question -- does anyone else of note agree with the Dimonds regarding the interpretation of those quotes? And for that matter, how many DISagree meanwhile?

    Because some men fall to the devil's temptation to take their own private convictions & interpretations and create a new religion around it. They try to bind the consciences of others with something that is NOT absolute or dogmatic -- or even true. Protestants did this all the time after the 1500s. It's how we ended up with thousands of Protestant sects. Each heresiarch was convinced he was right. He couldn't see it any other way. So he had no choice but to break off on his own, and condemn everyone who disagreed with him.
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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #24 on: November 14, 2022, 11:46:57 AM »
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  • If NFP is a moral good, then why have I seen marriages and relationships destroyed because couples had trouble being open to life, or if they felt they had too many children as is? Now, I have actually seen this happen over the years and so I know what I am talking about here. If the marital act is not in order and the spouses are not open to procreation, nothing but sorrow and anger enters the household. If you remove the purpose of something, you are left empty. All kinds of vices enter the home such as the husband having an addiction to pornography. I wonder if it was because the marital act was not being performed the way God intended?

    I knew of one fertile couple. They had been married a good ten years. She had no miscarriages and conceived only once. They had an eight year old son. They were too busy openly talking about how NFP has changed their marriage and how it has helped them “get to know their bodies.” Did they mean her safe days? Safe from what…pregnancy? It makes you wonder. But when I looked at them, I could see quite clearly that the both of them could die of terror. Preventing pregnancy with INTENT TO DO SO is still preventing pregnancy, no matter how you do it! It is sinful to prevent because you do not want the responsibility of another child.

    I would be very careful when parties debate on Natural Family Planning because neither of us are the creators or “deciders” of the marital act. God has laid down rules for this stuff. Remember we are even wounded by Original Sin, if we have used NFP selfishly at least one or twice, we will do it again and then it is only a matter of time after that. sɛҳuąƖ pleasure is very powerful, I suggest we all stick with the Natural Law on this one. I understand that there are grave reasons for using NFP, but how many ACTUALLY have grave reasons? Almost none. Planned Parenthood does recommend NFP as a preventer. It makes me very sick to the stomach to think in using something that an evil organization recommends to women who clearly would use it to PREVENT PREGNANCY, so that they could have pleasure. sɛҳuąƖ pleasure is passing by but the souls of your children and the the souls which God wants to give you DO NOT.

    It’s funny because when I was ten years old, I actually frowned upon any kind of natural prevention of a pregnancy. I still frown today.
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    The Novus Ordo has done considerable damage by imprudently imposing NFP as though it were some kind of moral duty. Such rampant abuses are indeed crimes against marriage, but are distinguishable from the question the OP asked: is NFP contraception? It isn't, and the Church has expressly permitted its usage since the 1860s (that is not a typo) under narrow conditions. 
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    The article the OP mentioned (by Fr Calkins) is commendable warning against casual, indiscriminate use. The Holy Office long imposed rather strict guidelines for confessors to follow when the topic came up-- they (confessors) were only to recommend it cautiously, and only for couples who were spiritually mature enough that the priest could be confident the practice would not be abused. I can't remember if it is Fr Calkins or someone else I read who said that if a couple asks about NFP, their solicitation is a warning sign that they are not suitable for using it. 
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    Of course, this great care and concern was abandoned quickly after Vatican II. 
    "Be kind; do not seek the malicious satisfaction of having discovered an additional enemy to the Church... And, above all, be scrupulously truthful. To all, friends and foes alike, give that serious attention which does not misrepresent any opinion, does not distort any statement, does not mutilate any quotation. We need not fear to serve the cause of Christ less efficiently by putting on His spirit". (Vermeersch, 1913).

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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #25 on: November 14, 2022, 11:48:52 AM »
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  • Serious Reason, and attitude. 

    NFP (words, accronym) should not be used.  This is a labeling of the liberal ways.  What we truly have is God's Design, anatomy physiology since Adam and Eve.  Why this long to see the beauty of God's design is questioinable.

    Federal grants got a hold of  God's Design and made it rotten. So, when taught, there is no mention of God in any way. Planed Parenthood called it High tech Rhythm when condoms are added. When PP teaches condoms, it is right over the cervical mucus and creates pregnancy to abortion to the person going to contraception and abortion pills. Come to find out New Order teaches the same way only saying condoms maybe needed by a married couple.  What lies. Whether it be AIDS or such, condoms do no salvation.

    Dr. Billings stated, and I was there to hear him, "This is not yours!  This is God's!"  He was furious, because attitude was rotten of those taking federal dollars.  I was offered to sign papers to the affect and I refused knowing the enemies.

    We will be judged of our heart, attitude.  We regret that there may come a time to postpone or such, but the object of God's design it not mortal sin, sin is of the person, soul that makes sin occur, from the heart. So, I agree with the use of God's design when in serious reason.


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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #26 on: November 14, 2022, 01:27:08 PM »
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  • Dr. Billings stated, and I was there to hear him…

    You are known for false accusations. I can only wonder if this is a false accusation against Dr. Billings. I'd like to hear the testimony of someone trustworthy.

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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #27 on: November 14, 2022, 02:14:30 PM »
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  • So you don't condemn heresy?  Why are you a traditionalist again?  Oh, maybe you do condemn heresy but not with "BITTER ZEAL"?  I hate to inform you that everyone in the Novus Ordo thinks you are a demonic villain with "BITTER ZEAL".  If they are wrong about you, then maybe you are wrong about the Dimonds.

    Is that your logic?
    "They're wrong about you, so you are wrong about them!"

    Apples and oranges.

    I'm not going to argue with you about it. If you can't tell the difference between fidelity to the Catholic Faith as it was always taught, and Bitter Zeal, then I can't help you. I would be wasting my breath.
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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #28 on: November 14, 2022, 02:17:35 PM »
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  • I’ll take the Dimond Bros. over liberal “Catholics” any day!

    I wouldn't. Quite the opposite, actually. At least liberal "Catholics" are over-emphasizing "love" and Charity (distorted into "chawity") at the expense of truth. But they COULD be made aware of their errors and correct them.

    The Dimonds, on the other hand, are self-righteous Pharisees who are full of pride and who would never apologize for anything. So I'd place their chance at salvation at: "lower than the average liberal Catholic".

    I must confess: I got this idea from Our Lord. He said "harlots and publicans will go into heaven before you" to the Pharisees.
    Apparently, according to The Truth Himself, it is WORSE for one's salvation to be a self-righteous, proud Pharisee full of bitter zeal than it is to be a sinner weak against the flesh, or other weaknesses (like human respect, which is rampant in the Novus Ordo).
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    Re: Is NFP really contraception in any circuмstance?
    « Reply #29 on: November 14, 2022, 02:21:30 PM »
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  • "ServusInutilisDomini", "Clemens Maria" and "Polymath" have been banned for promoting/supporting the Dimond Brothers on this site.

    I don't want their poison on CathInfo.

    Apparently their poison is somewhat subtle, that not everyone can perceive it. But I certainly can. I know Traditional Catholic like the back of my hand, and the Dimond Brothers aren't it.
    They are a Pharisaical, demonic distortion of what it means to be Traditional Catholic.

    The Dimond Brothers are my enemy, because they are against what I stand for: the Traditional Catholic position WITH ALL CHARITY as personified by Archbishop Lefebvre. I am against the needless division that dogmatic Home Aloners like the Dimond Brothers stand for. I want *some* of the same goals they do -- at least on paper -- but in the same way that the Pharisees technically were promoting God's interests ON PAPER. -- but Jesus Christ had very choice words for the Pharisees, did He not!

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