SJB,
I find it hard to believe that the successors to the Apostles have no power over the laity to command obedience. I am not saying it is an all-encompassing power to do whatever they wish, but certainly their authority which is by virtue of their valid succession is more than an academic or administrative one.
Believe me, when I read what was written for the first time, I was taken aback as well. I honestly do not know how I would have felt if I were being given directives such as those. I truly hope and pray that I would have been immediately obedient, even if what was happening was a temporary cross that I was being called to bear. Sometimes Our Lord sees fit to allow us to suffer under things that are (or seem) unjust; our UNDERSTANDING is not the goal; our submission to His Holy Will is.
Mary, Help of Christians, pray for us.
Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us.
P.S. WHY was my reply to the kind comments directed to me thumbed down? I apologize if my words seemed overly flowery or high-handed, but they are sincere, even if I do come off as petulant sometimes. I tend to flex my vocabulary when I am in a good mood :) because it's much better than the gutter filth I would commonly spew when I was not in any sense cooperating with God's graces.