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Offline charette

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #25 on: October 29, 2025, 07:49:34 PM »
Quote from: Justinian on October 28, 2025, 01:06:22 PM
Quote from: Justinian 2025-10-28, 11:06:22 AM
How long have you been married? Do you get along well apart from the religious issues? Would it be possible to compromise, one week attend NO mass and the other go to  a Latin Mass. Meet her where she’s at. Are you both still attending Mass together?
Faith is not something that can be compromised week by week. The Novus Ordo liturgy is not simply a different style of worship; it expresses a theology that departs from the Catholic Faith handed down from the Apostles. To suggest alternating between the true Mass and the modern rite is to place truth and error on equal footing and to expose souls, especially within a marriage, to confusion and spiritual harm.

Authentic unity in marriage is built on the same Faith, not on alternating between conflicting religions. Real charity means praying, sacrificing, and patiently leading a spouse toward the fullness of Catholic Tradition, not participating in a service that endangers the faith of both husband and wife.
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Offline Justinian

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #26 on: October 30, 2025, 06:34:09 AM »
Quote from: Bl Alojzije Stepinac on October 29, 2025, 12:18:01 PM
She doesn't attend mass, she holds a grudge against local priest, I understand that, long story. But it's mostly laziness, like 90 % of Novus ordites she doesn't think it's so important. Her mother is old and sick but she watch livestream NO mass, but I never heard her talking about it to her daughter. She knows how stubborn she is, I know it very well. Of course we have some of the important things in common, not just our small daughter. But when I started to live like a traditional Catholic, differences have been multiplied in small and great things, attitudes, viewpoints.

There were situations were we both thought that divorce is the only solution, even recently this year. But her heretical and erroneus religion or philosophical stances are not a reason to obtain annulment. I was not a traditional catholic when we got married, 10 years ago but a conservative Novus Ordo, attending mass on Sundays, etc.. And that point in time is crucial, I asked 2-3 traditional priests and also educated members of this forum. They all confirmed that our marriage is valid sacrament. Maybe only dogmatic sedevacantists can say that all Novus ordo sacraments are invalid, including sacrament of matrimony.

I don't want that anyway, she is trying to respect what I do, believe but if only refrain from trying to impose that on her, in some things even on our daughter. We will have problems later on, but maybe great chastisements will happen before that time comes. I'm hoping it to come sooner rather than later, fire from the sky, 3 days of darknerss, comet and great floods, nuclear war whatever is necessary to clean this godless, abominable mankind.

I'm sorry if I digress too broadly. I think still that if I knew my future 10 years before, even 5 years before, I wouldn't marry her or stayed in this marriage. And she says that too to me, we both lnow that. Maybe she would left me before I left her...It is logical conclusion...
That sounds incredibly difficult.
My advice for what it’s worth is: keep showing her a good example by attending the Latin Mass every Sunday and take your daughter if possible. Pray for your wife, refrain from talking constantly about chastisement and days of darkness, this is not something we can know about, it’s up to God. Keep a positive optimistic outlook and praise her and be appreciative of whatever she does do right, like is she a devoted mother? Do you have other things you like doing together, going to certain places, hobbies and interests in common? Remember how long St Monica prayed for St Augustine. Try not to resent your wife, after all you changed after she married you. Just gently see if you can introduce her to some other ladies who attend Latin Mass…..
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Offline SimonJude

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #27 on: November 01, 2025, 05:40:10 AM »
Simple solution: don't get married.  Become a religious or stay single and live a good and holy life. Problem solved.
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Online TomGubbinsKimmage

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #28 on: November 01, 2025, 05:56:42 AM »
Quote from: SimonJude on November 01, 2025, 05:40:10 AM
Simple solution: don't get married.  Become a religious or stay single and live a good and holy life. Problem solved.

For women that works. Their window of opportunity is much, much narrower. In fact it is recommended for so many these days as they are just intolerable women, and it is sparing some unfortunate man.

Men just have to wait it out longer. 

Give it time, society is already changing rapidly. The present generation of women were raised by very weak fathers and this is why so many of them are and will be single. (45% by 2030 and that excludes single mothers). Wont be the case for the next generation.

Men have the choice to marry much younger or outside their country.

Patience gentlemen, patience.
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Offline SimonJude

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #29 on: November 01, 2025, 06:09:29 AM »
Quote from: TomGubbinsKimmage on November 01, 2025, 05:56:42 AM
For women that works. Their window of opportunity is much, much narrower. In fact it is recommended for so many these days as they are just intolerable women, and it is sparing some unfortunate man.

Men just have to wait it out longer.

Give it time, society is already changing rapidly. The present generation of women were raised by very weak fathers and this is why so many of them are and will be single. (45% by 2030 and that excludes single mothers). Wont be the case for the next generation.

Men have the choice to marry much younger or outside their country.

Patience gentlemen, patience.
Salvation is our #1 job.  Work on that and all is well.
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