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Offline AnthonyPadua

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Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #75 on: Yesterday at 09:51:36 PM »

I agree with the sentiment of 16-18, as a young man these are the best ages for women without a doubt. I have had tremendous issues with my mother and never found a woman older than that attractive, I think it's weak willed men as described by Tom who will gravitate toward older women.
Youth is one of many important qualities to consider when looking for a wife. Virtue is very important. If she's a bit older ~25 average looking but very virtuous, she is better than the hot teenager without virtue 

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Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #76 on: Yesterday at 09:54:12 PM »
I will leave this here, I cannot wait to be a father. I believe it takes knowing each other for at least 12-14 months to have a successful marriage, so I can wait, and I am fervently skeptical of everything up until that point, but I am excited for the opportunity of marriage if God grants it to me.

I have a cat who I affectionately call son, he is the best behaved cat I have ever seen, and I love him so much. I can't wait to see what it'll be like when I have my own sons. My daughters, sticking to the topic of the post, I love so much that they will never see the dim interior lights of a post-secondary school ever. Yay, I can send my daughter to school so she can learn to program. That is backwards, she will be in the kitchen with her mother learning from her, and in the garden caring for flowers. Children are incredible, I can talk about children all day.
I think courtship should be 1 year MAX. My parents got married within 2 months but their marriage is only successful in the worldly sense as only my father became traditional in recent years and their children... NO or no religion.

It really doesn't take long to know someone, just discuss important topics and see how they behave.


Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #77 on: Today at 08:58:11 AM »
I think courtship should be 1 year MAX. My parents got married within 2 months but their marriage is only successful in the worldly sense as only my father became traditional in recent years and their children... NO or no religion.

It really doesn't take long to know someone, just discuss important topics and see how they behave.
I've had too many bad experiences with women who lie to me. My instinct was to heir on the side of caution, I reconsider. Nowadays I can tell in a few seconds if a girl is decent or not. Will it take so long to court before marriage? I don't think so. There will be no wasted time on "repair", so there is no reason for it to take so long.

I'll have to see. Once a decent young woman is lead to me, I will decide on my own terms without her knowing when the proposal and the spiritual marriage will take place. In front of his father, in the best case, we will invite Jesus to our marriage and say everything as is tradition. Then we will have a ceremony in a traditional chapel. It's common sense.

The difficulty is to find, and we have overcome that, I pray for God's providence. I know deep in my soul that I will be a great father, and by extension a great husband.

Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #78 on: Today at 09:02:00 AM »
Blessed Virgin Mary was 12 at the youngest and 15 at the oldest. Saint Joseph was 30 at the youngest and some saints say as old as 48, he could be even older but we don't know, 30 however is considered the youngest by the Saints, modenrist will say younger but this is contrary to tradition (feminist propaganda too).

For reference, Aristotle says the ideal is 37 for the man and about 18 for the woman. Some users on this forum say the man should be ideally 7 yrs older and I agree, though this is more a general rule rather than an absolute.
Thank you for debunking this heresy. That makes way more sense. 

Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #79 on: Today at 12:21:25 PM »
I personally believe that this concept of women significantly decreasing in fertility after 25-30 is propaganda and a particularly modern problem.

Think about it. Society tells women to wait for marriage until at around 25-30 (to ensure careers are acquired and education finished), then the medical system will tell you that when you come out of school or establish yourself, that your fertility is rapidly, dangerously decreasing at that age and according to them, you actually become a high risk mother 35 and above, simply due to age.

What are the results? No babies at 20, no babies at 30.

Historically, Catholic women had perfectly healthy children well into their 40s.

Some women remain fertile into their 50s.

The reason why women are not as fertile nowadays or attractive is because they do not take care of themselves, letting themselves get fat, and wrinkle prematurely from not consuming enough foods with fat and collagen, those two things keep the skin tight and healthy.

Old pictures of people from the past show that men and women generally used to be more beautiful, especially those who consumed traditionally prepared foods.

Better jawlines, high cheekbones, bigger eyes, proportioned faces, this is all due to being properly nourished and not chronically inflamed from poor quality food and the stressful modern lifestyle (not enough fresh air, walking, sleep, sunshine, honouring circadian rhythms, etc.)

Men literally looked like strong, robust men at age 16. Women looked like feminine, beautiful women at 16. Now a lot of these women look like masculinized whores from birth control, and the men look like little boys in a lot of ways.

Vitamin D, for example, keeps the facial bone structures strong and defined. A lack of this is what causes the need for braces, and awkward, caved in faces (did not mean to rhyme there!)

Women who are metabolically healthy will have nourished hormones and glowing skin for a long time.

This metabolic fitness is often accomplished through healthy keto, and there have actually been women who inadvertently came out of menopause and had children, because of healthy keto.

Now I’m not saying this diet is for everyone, I am simply giving an example of what true health can look like, and often does.


You're completely forgetting that most women in the past were wifed up by 19. Once a woman starts having children she is not producing eggs, and things get pushed down the road.