Clelia,
You say that you are not a Feminist.
You possibly genuinely mean that.
But you have imbibed Feminist principles.
You are simply wrong in some of what you have posted on this thread.
Try to see the truth.
Pray to the Immaculate Heart of Mary for the grace to see the truth and to accept it.
Pray to God the Holy Ghost for guidance.
I do hope that you come to understand what God really intends for girls and women in life.
God Bless you, Clelia.
I am NOT a feminist!
I went to college in the 70's, and I AGREE that it CAN be a cesspool of filth and erroneous teaching to boot.
YET - the subject here seems to have drifted from the quality of college in general to women not being given the opportunity to answer God's call for her which may not be to marry just anybody at 18. There are schools that are better than others, and good and holy Catholic women have been able to learn to be excellent Catholic nurses, doctors, social workers, AND good mothers and NOT ALL WOMEN WHO GO TO COLLEGE are putting off marriage and family - THAT is the point: not all women loose their souls IF they are fortified with The True Faith and PRAYER. I am not addressing those women who are faint of heart. weak in faith, or have not the True Religion.
You men make it sound like women are not worth educating, rather than give rational caveats and warnings that indeed would be helpful to readers here, instead of one-size pantyhose fits all.
There are the notions of ideal and real. In the real world, not all women find AN ACCEPTABLE MATE either at 18, 20, or 30, if at all, because there are many more pagan jerks walking the earth than good Traditional Catholic Men, like YOU all profess to be.
Wouldn't it be wonderful if there were more men like YOU for a Traditional Catholic young lady to choose from. Otherwise, she must learn to support herself, perhaps help her future husband even if only part-time while raising the children, and maybe she will not find a suitable and loving mate at all. Maybe she will choose to be chaste and not selfish, but serving in her field. Maybe many realities that do not fit your one-way thinking.
What about saints who did not copulate? Or separate like St Nilus and his wife to be married religious after having (at least as far as I can remember reading) two children, one went with him to a monastery, and the other with mom, I believe.
Reality; not idealism.
God Bless you all.