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You don't need to attract a plethora of women if your aim is to have a Catholic marriage, you only need one.  And here we are once again drawn into the netherworld of Tele and his problems with women.  

Tele, it sounds like you're talking about women in the world, not from church.  Why do you expect women in the world to act like Catholic women?  Are you saying that ALL Catholic girls want the jerk bad boy?  I am sure many of them do, the more worldly ones, that is how they are programmed by the media, but ALL?  No.  There are clearly many meek Catholic girls.  

But from what I saw with the girl at SSPX, you went out and picked one who is the very farthest thing from a girl who sits at home darning socks.  You pick one who is at college, artistic, ambitious, etc.  That is probably what attracted you to her, she was "special," she represented a cultivated world you want to be part of.  But you shoot yourself in the foot, because it was unrealistic, this girl was not going to live in a cabin with you.  It is obvious.  She is way too engaged in far too many activities.  But that may be what attracted you, to "tame" a girl like this, to make her subject to you.

So on the one hand, you complain about girls participating in all these activities in the world, saying they should be simple.  But then you go after the girl who is totally caught up in the world ( not necessarily worldly ).  Then when you don't get what you want, you spin all these theories and wrap them around yourself to make yourself feel better:  Women want bad boys, they hate sensitive men, they go to college when they shouldn't, they listen to their fathers when they shouldn't, etc.  Some are true, some aren't, but what unites all your ideas is that they are driven by your own emotions, not logic, and certainly not God, though as a Catholic you draw on certain truths of the faith, which you then twist and distort and exaggerate.

I see as clear as day how you are.  You don't want the meek girl you say you do; you want to take the fantasy girl and CHANGE her, to have control over her.  So you are PRECISELY the male version of those girls who like bad boys.  You want to take girls who are "challenging" and change them, Pygmalion-style.  
I'm not saying this girl you were in love with is a bad girl, but she is not the meek Catholic girl that you extol here, and that you would probably ignore in real life if she came your way.  I hope your theories keep you warm because you are unlikely to ever find a woman as long as you are this bitter and delusional.

But from what I saw with the girl at SSPX, you went out and picked one who is the very farthest thing from a girl who sits at home darning socks. You pick one who is at college, artistic, ambitious,

None of that was true at the time, nor did it appear to be true.

Nor did I have the opportunity to find out, because communication was forbidden.

Here's the point:

The man in this society who wants to behave honorably is treated like crap by everyone in this society.  If he marries he's on the hook for all the responsibilities and none of the rights of marriage.

The pharisees who have their piece of the pie know that the only men they can push around these days are the naive "average beta chumps" as the lingo goes.

That's why they load them down with burdens that they themselves refused to bear.

And if you think the church girls are really different, you're kidding yourself.

The "rationalization hamster" is at work in the church just as everywhere else.

That's why you have a woman ditching her fiance at the last moment in these trad churches.

The "tough guy fathers and brothers" (who are really putting on an act, like nadieimportante - the only recourse they want to rely on is the law) can't do anything about the bad guys who are having their way with the young women.

They can only bully and antagonize the nice guys.  And if they find out you don't have money suddenly you're treated like a piece of shit they stepped in.  That's the reality in western "Christianity" today.

Women from traditional societies like Iran are still substantially different, although it's changing rapidly.