YouTube popped up some videos from a single man who writes about how to deal with relationships with modern women. I listened to one or two of them. Having lived in that world till I was 42, I consider myself very knowledgeable on the subject. I found his advice and take to be very good for a person of the world. I am no longer of the world, and I thought of posting in the comments some things, but as I watched more and more of the 2-3 videos, I realized that nothing that I say will penetrate his mindset because he and I live with two different purposes of life. Our two purposes of life have nothing to do with the other. Which leads me to only one response to him, which is THE QUESTION that everyone must ask themselves but not a one person ever does.
What is the purpose of your life?
A) If your purpose in life is to love and serve your Creator, the ONE that gives you your every breath of life, then you would respond to relationships with women (or women with men) in a totally different way than the people of the world do.
Z) If your purpose in life is to have fun, to enjoy life to the fullest then you will behave totally different that the person that knows his real purpose.
Since I was in the world till I came back to the Church and my Creator at 42, I know the world well and how to talk to them. I know because it is this type of talk that converted me. Here is what I would say in short to the man in the videos:
"The principle of all your videos is that women today are just gold diggers being nice to lure you into their trap to take everything you have. Your advice to men centers around how to avoid this trap and to find a "good women". Since in your world there is no Holy Trinity (God), there are no rules except the ones you make up in your mind, the same applies to your adversaries, the gold diggers. The gold diggers are very smart to use their appeal (while they still have it) to get ahead in life. The female appeal time is very short compared to men and they have to move fast to take advantage of the short time of fame that they will have. Bottom line my friend, is that there are no rules if there is no God. You do not want God in your life, you just want to go to bed with every pretty woman you see, and your adversary, who also does not want God in their lives, wants to get riches out of her highly demanded product before there is little demand".