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Traditional Catholic Faith => Catholic Living in the Modern World => Topic started by: Last Tradhican on May 27, 2020, 10:01:49 AM
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YouTube popped up some videos from a single man who writes about how to deal with relationships with modern women. I listened to one or two of them. Having lived in that world till I was 42, I consider myself very knowledgeable on the subject. I found his advice and take to be very good for a person of the world. I am no longer of the world, and I thought of posting in the comments some things, but as I watched more and more of the 2-3 videos, I realized that nothing that I say will penetrate his mindset because he and I live with two different purposes of life. Our two purposes of life have nothing to do with the other. Which leads me to only one response to him, which is THE QUESTION that everyone must ask themselves but not a one person ever does.
What is the purpose of your life?
A) If your purpose in life is to love and serve your Creator, the ONE that gives you your every breath of life, then you would respond to relationships with women (or women with men) in a totally different way than the people of the world do.
Z) If your purpose in life is to have fun, to enjoy life to the fullest then you will behave totally different that the person that knows his real purpose.
Since I was in the world till I came back to the Church and my Creator at 42, I know the world well and how to talk to them. I know because it is this type of talk that converted me. Here is what I would say in short to the man in the videos:
"The principle of all your videos is that women today are just gold diggers being nice to lure you into their trap to take everything you have. Your advice to men centers around how to avoid this trap and to find a "good women". Since in your world there is no Holy Trinity (God), there are no rules except the ones you make up in your mind, the same applies to your adversaries, the gold diggers. The gold diggers are very smart to use their appeal (while they still have it) to get ahead in life. The female appeal time is very short compared to men and they have to move fast to take advantage of the short time of fame that they will have. Bottom line my friend, is that there are no rules if there is no God. You do not want God in your life, you just want to go to bed with every pretty woman you see, and your adversary, who also does not want God in their lives, wants to get riches out of her highly demanded product before there is little demand".
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Proverbs 5:3-4 “For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil. But in the end she is as bitter as poison, as dangerous as a double-edged sword.”
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What is the purpose of your life?
A) If your purpose in life is to love and serve your Creator, the ONE that gives you your every breath of life, then you would respond to relationships with women (or women with men) in a totally different way than the people of the world do.
Z) If your purpose in life is to have fun, to enjoy life to the fullest then you will behave totally different that the person that knows his real purpose.
In my experience, the young trads today live an in between AZ life. A - Girls dress provocatively, flirt, and "date" to lure the young men to marry them. Boys seek the girls that are easier, girls that (dress provocatively, flirt, and "date"). Z - they go to the trad mass, get married, have a few children, and maybe stay married despite being unhappy with the situation they got themselves into by playing games with God.
AZ) The purpose of life is to have fun, enjoy life and be a "trad Catholic".
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You should post on the videos. I wouldn't be too sure about the impenetrability. There is a man named 'Roosh' who spent his life until his forties writing how-to seduction advice for men, and recently he left that life behind, in no small part because of the work of E Michael Jones (Roosh became Orthodox, because that's what his family was, so he hasn't figured everything out, but he's going in the right direction). Anyways, the Rooshes of the world are the ones you'd least expect to 'wake up,' being so mired in habitual sin and building a brand out of it. But it still happens. Don't give up on anyone.
This whole video is worth watching, especially for young/single men. But Roosh starts telling his story within the first minute if you don't want to watch the whole thing:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYOcyDRcG1E
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You should post on the videos.
Following your advice, I posted this below, and it was removed within minutes. Then I posted it again and it was removed within minutes. Then I made two simple comments of no consequence and neither one was removed.
What is the purpose of your life?
A) If your purpose in life is to love and serve your Creator, the ONE that gives you your every breath of life, then you would respond to relationships with women (or women with men) in a totally different way than the people of the world do.
Z) If your purpose in life is to have fun, to enjoy life to the fullest then you will behave totally different that the person that knows his real purpose.
"The principle of all your videos is that women today are just gold diggers being nice to lure you into their trap to take everything you have. Your advice to men centers around how to avoid this trap and to find a "good women". Since in your world there is no Holy Trinity (God), there are no rules except the ones you make up in your mind, the same applies to your adversaries, the gold diggers. The gold diggers are very smart to use their youthful physical appeal (while they still have it) to get ahead in life. The female youthful physical appeal time is very short compared to men and they have to move fast to take advantage of the short time of fame that they will have. Bottom line my friend, is that there are no rules if there is no God. You do not want God in your life, you just want to go to bed with every pretty woman you see, and your adversaries, who also do not want God in their lives, want to get riches out of their high demand product before there is little demand".
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Following your advice, I posted this below, and it was removed within minutes. Then I posted it again and it was removed within minutes. Then I made two simple comments of no consequence and neither one was removed.
What is the purpose of your life?
A) If your purpose in life is to love and serve your Creator, the ONE that gives you your every breath of life, then you would respond to relationships with women (or women with men) in a totally different way than the people of the world do.
Z) If your purpose in life is to have fun, to enjoy life to the fullest then you will behave totally different that the person that knows his real purpose.
"The principle of all your videos is that women today are just gold diggers being nice to lure you into their trap to take everything you have. Your advice to men centers around how to avoid this trap and to find a "good women". Since in your world there is no Holy Trinity (God), there are no rules except the ones you make up in your mind, the same applies to your adversaries, the gold diggers. The gold diggers are very smart to use their youthful physical appeal (while they still have it) to get ahead in life. The female youthful physical appeal time is very short compared to men and they have to move fast to take advantage of the short time of fame that they will have. Bottom line my friend, is that there are no rules if there is no God. You do not want God in your life, you just want to go to bed with every pretty woman you see, and your adversaries, who also do not want God in their lives, want to get riches out of their high demand product before there is little demand".
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It's good that you posted it, even though it was removed. That means the person moderating the channel read it (and didn't like it, but they read it, and that's what's important. Put a pebble in someone's shoe.).
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My purpose in this life is to know love and serve God so that I can be happy with Him in the next life.
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