It also seems to me that a woman wearing pants would be a hindrance to marriage for a Catholic man because of the example that could be given to possible future children someday.
Only if he objects.
I find this issue of women and pants especially disheartening ...
Indeed, it is, because it is a non-issue. There are plenty of real sins to fret about without making more up.
... when even women who claim to be traditional Catholics are still alright with even the notion of women wearing pants.
As a woman who claims to be a traditional Catholic, I am all right with the notion of women wearing trousers.
It is nonsensical to make out that a type of garb which
men never used to wear is exclusively men's garb, simply because they started wearing them first. And to find the idea of men and women wearing similar clothes as subversive and un-Catholic, even though Our Lady and St Joseph wore similar clothes!
It is utter, illogical, nonsense.
... It is one thing for a traditional Catholic woman to have difficult time to break the habit of wearing pants and yet still having the proper understanding that it is not proper for a woman to wear pants, ...
Well, I broke the habit of wearing trousers years ago, but I still do not see why it is not proper for women to wear them ever. It is, as I said, a non-issue. I only don't wear them because I am scared of what other trads will think!