Best advice any man in his twenties and thirties can follow is to find something that keeps him occupied, that is wholesome, and not go worrying about finding a bride so quickly.
Modern economics are such that it takes longer for a man not only to build himself up economically, especially if he does not want to be in debt, and also his character.
The flesh gets a lot of guys super worried about this, but that will always be there. St. Jerome said in his 80s he had never been as tempted in his life in relation to this sin.
What a man can't get as easily is the patient suffering through trials that gives him CHARACTER. The kind of character that will give you a far superior ability to deal with all your future wife and children's various problems and vicissitudes, than a man who just just took the first thing he could get at 20. Not that these men don't learn suffering too. But our ideal is St. Joseph and nobody reputable said he married before 33. So there's that to think about.
Topic: I want daughters, I want sons, how many good girls? There are none. (Read 1855 times)