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Re: Advice on immodest adult daughter
« Reply #115 on: Today at 03:59:00 PM »
So when and where did the priest see her for the first time?  at the communion rail?  Not the appropriate time to admonish/instruct/center out anyone on their first time visit.
If you saw her before Mass did you offer her a sweater or ask if she had something to cover with? Or if the young man was a regular, did you take him aside and encourage him to rectify her error?
Not every situation can be resolved to a charitable/satisfactory outcome on sight.
Remember, the bible says to admonish the sinner once,
then admonish the sinner with another witness,
Then take the problem to the priest.

This was a mission mass that occurred monthly in the summertime, so we were basically strangers. And I haven’t been there for too long.  

Have you ever implemented what you are suggesting to me? 

Re: Advice on immodest adult daughter
« Reply #116 on: Today at 04:10:20 PM »
This was a mission mass that occurred monthly in the summertime, so we were basically strangers. And I haven’t been there for too long. 

Have you ever implemented what you are suggesting to me?
Yes I have...quietly in private.  I have no desire to be responsible for her not returning.


Re: Advice on immodest adult daughter
« Reply #117 on: Today at 04:13:57 PM »
Yes I have...quietly in private.  I have no desire to be responsible for her not returning.
That’s not your fault if a woman does not return to the sacraments for such a small reason.

It’s better for such a woman not to be there, she would only drag people down and probably increase her punishment in hell by unworthy reception of the sacraments.

Remember what Pope Pius X said, that lukewarm Catholics were the reason for the evil plaguing the day, which is the same evil of our day: modernism.