Viva, Now I understand what you are saying and of course you see things from the right Godly perspective and you are rightly upset.
Emile was not hurt, but he was rather addressing Elwin, not you. This happens from time to time that we misread the intention. It shows that his sentiments were directed to you. I hope I am not speaking out of turn here.
Thank you, Nadir. I wasn't quite sure why Viva was addressing me, and didn't get around to asking her, but I think that you cleared up the confusion with an edifying gentleness.