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Re: College is usually NOT worth it
« Reply #50 on: August 29, 2019, 09:26:06 AM »
Or, he attends or did attend, and having such familiarity with the whole scene doesn't see the obvious.
He's 17, likely he intends to start in a year or two. 
Well all we can do is pray he comes out the other side with his faith. 

Re: College is usually NOT worth it
« Reply #51 on: August 29, 2019, 11:29:34 PM »
Even if you send your children to State University, they will be in danger and you will be responsible.

A naive young trad catholic will have atheistic or neopagan teachers and friends. Even if they go from home to University and from University to home, day by day.

I wouldn't send a daughter to college or State University. I will encourage her to learn a trade at home. If she marries, its OK, I will pray she would be at home. If she has a religious vocation, and learned a trade like cooking or sewing, that will be useful at her community. If she is a single woman, she could earn her own money (the last choice).

If I have a son, I would encourage him to learn some trade related to computers so he can learn at home, maybe going to State University but only if he is mature enough.
If your daughter ends up having to support herself, she’s going to be able to do so by cooking and sewing?  On which planet?  
OK, I shouldn’t be sarcastic, but think this to the natural conclusion!  


Re: College is usually NOT worth it
« Reply #52 on: August 29, 2019, 11:34:25 PM »
I don't know about everyone but in my own university experience the dorms were dens of vipers.
Which is EXACTLY why I moved out of the dorms after the first semester, two miles from campus into my own apartment at age 18.  

Re: College is usually NOT worth it
« Reply #53 on: August 29, 2019, 11:37:52 PM »
I never understood why parents want to finance their children becoming Marxistized and perverted, or why students go into debt just so they can become less sovereign people and filled with bogus information that has no real application in the world.

Re: College is usually NOT worth it
« Reply #54 on: August 29, 2019, 11:53:43 PM »
I think a great idea is to look into whatever the biggest industry or industries are in your area. For example, in Louisville, insurance of all kinds is one of their big industries, in Texas energy is one, in California it's IT, Detroit it's automotive, in Florida it's Tourism, and so on. I talked to a guy in TX a few years ago whose son was making over $115k/yr driving truck for one of the big oil companies from 9 to 5 every day, all he was doing was hauling metal pipes and pumps etc.. Most states that I know of have a choice of different industries to look into where one can make some really good income without any degree.

Within each of the bigger local industries, there are almost always great paying jobs that all one needs to do is learn via "on the job training." True one would usually start at the bottom, but within 4 or 5 years they should be making a nice income, after a few more years they'd be making even more, have a career they enjoy because they're good at it, and they did it without having to go in serious debt to get brainwashed  at college.    

 
This is a great idea for a young man who lives in a place that still has “industry” like Louisville.  As for a daughter?  Many places no longer have heavy industry, and that which do necessitates higher education to make a decent living.  Take Florida’s tourism industry, or IT, or the restaurant business.  Nobody except those on welfare support their families working at McDonalds or in an entry level IT job.  Many of these people can be found living in welfare motels near Disney resorts or in worn out RVs parked illegally near Google headquarters.  Right now, Louisville is one of the rare places that a man can find a decent job or work his way up into one, but he will probably need to live, 5-8 years at home before he’ll be ready to marry.  Should an entire family move for this purpose?  What about the parents, likely in their 50s?  Will Dad be able to find work?  Businesses just aren’t hiring 55 year olds.  And if it’s a daughter who doesn’t marry or enter a convent?  I don’t think most parents want her to drive a semi hauling pipes and heavy equipment, even if it does pay the bills!  
I’m not arguing, just questioning.  It seems to me that there really IS no one answer except to pray for each adult “child” to grow in holiness and acquire heroic fortitude in order to both survive in the world and save his soul.