I agree with a lot as far as being good places to live. I have to give the highest weight to the TLM. But equally high for practical purposes is affordability. I live in an expensive liberal cesspool. Decent retirement savings. I turn 59 1/2 in 3.5 years and plan to retire and get out.
Next, I give a higher weight than many might to weather. I can't take blizzards and when it gets to 95 I can't get out much due to health reasons. I can take the cold better but not shoveling 2 feet of know in my golden years.
All the places I like are conservative. Kentucky is a possible exception, at least around Lexington. Not sure about gun laws in Kentucky.
I also want a place with natural beauty and local cultural attractions. Good local food.
I’ve never found a whole state I could recommend, especially if you want an easily available TLM. I’ve focused on areas within states.
If all you care about is a traditional Catholic setting, I’d look at the Coeur d’Alene Idaho to Spokane, Washington corridor. I know – Washington – but there’s lots of TLM activity up there and Idaho is very conservative. The winters are too snowy for me. Beautiful country.
Second place would be St. Marys Kansas – 30 minutes from Topeka and 90 minutes from Kansas City. Kinda remote unless you live closer to Topeka. Cold winters and hot summers but as bad as Oklahoma City. Natural beauty. Not a lot of attractions in Topeka but I've heard they have good chili.
So for the places that are less severe in weather then Idaho and more to do outside of church than St. Marys, I’d recommend the following in order of their attractiveness.
1 - Rapid City, SD – beautiful country, the Badlands, Mount Rushmore, Reptile Gardens, American Indian stuff. Very cold winters but not a lot of snow. Summers are pleasant compared to most places. Daily FSSP Mass, SSPX Mass on Sunday. Affordable.
2 - Tulsa, OK – weather much milder then Oklahoma City, hills, four seasons, long spring. Conservative. Lots of American Indian stuff. Daily FSSP Mass. One hour from Clear Creek Monastery. Affordable.
3 - Oklahoma City – Terrible weather. Tornados. Brutal summers and winters. Conservative. Some American Indian cultural stuff. Daily FSSP Mass in Bethany (suburb) and CMRI on Sundays in another suburb. Affordable.
4 - Lexington Kentucky – the exurbs. KY is conservative. Lexington is crazy. Plus it has hot summers and snowy winters. But it DOES have daily FSSP Mass and its affordable.