At some stage in a young girl's life, the father needs to talk to her very seriously about how men look at women, because they have no idea other than the fact that when they dress a certain way they get more male attention. This really needs to come from the father, who will explain how the male eye functions. An immodestly dressed girl is to man, what an abandoned wallet looks like to a thief. The temptation, however brief is still there, even if he does nothing, she has in fact provoked a sinful feeling.
We have a good friend here with two daughters and he explained to them, that men look at girls in a binary way. Some girls are for a temporary "good time" and there are some who we can marry. A decent catholic man will ignore the "good time" girls and she will therefore only get attention from bad catholics, immigrants and others.
This talk was very useful for his daughters who have always been modestly but elegantly dressed. One married very young and has already has her first child.
Generally the girls with liberal mothers dress immodestly so even if the sons are quite elegantly dressed, it seems difficult to imagine that anyone will want marry the daughters.
A girl has between the ages of 18 and 23 to catch the best possible man she can get. After that her options are rapidly reduced, so if she spends these precious years dressing to attract the wrong type of man, then basically she has wasted her best shot.
It's not that complicated. Be modest and you will probably find a man, have a family, a home, and protection for the rest of your life, without even having to build a career.
Or dress immodestly, have a party life start getting worried at 29 years old that you have no-one and then find that all the best men are taken and they wouldn't want you even if they weren't.
A woman earns love from preserving what she has, whilst a man earns love from building his life. He will happily provide security for a woman who has retained her purity.
Topic: Advice on immodest adult daughter (Read 631 times)