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A checklist for Christian men seeking a godly wife:

* Make sure she is a Christian and is living her Christian faith. She should be feminine. In other words, she should be glad she’s a woman, not angry or uncertain about it. Woman was made from man, for man, brought to man, and named by man.

* She should know the divine order. Man is the leader. Woman is the follower. Man is the initiator. Woman is the responder. 

* She should acknowledge Christ as Lord. Wives are to submit to their husbands as unto the Lord.

* She should choose to obey God and to accept her husband’s destiny. In other words, if she marries a business man who later becomes a preacher and a pastor, she cannot say, “I married a business man. I did not want to be married to a preacher.” His destiny is her destiny. She is to obey and follow her husband. This is not to say that she is a zero. A help meet is some one. A zero cannot be a helper. One plus one equals two, not one plus zero.

* She needs a sense of humor. She doesn’t have to be a comedienne, but she should have a good sense of humor.

* She should be willing to lay down a career entirely to be a mother. Watch out for any woman who talks about “rights”.

* She should have the unfading loveliness of a calm and gentle spirit. As I Peter 3 teaches to a Christian woman living with a non-Christian husband or a husband who is not acting like a Christian. A calm and gentle spirit is an attribute to any woman.

* She should know love is not a feeling, but an action. Feelings are no anchor for a marriage.

* She should know how to cook.

* She should like some of the same things such as books, sports, politics, hobbies, movies as her husband.

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Compile a list of Scripture readings that are inimical to feminists, just selections of St. Paul would be sufficient.
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Get those together in one place, printed out on paper would be perhaps best, and ask her to read them aloud to you in person.
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Watch her mannerisms, tone of voice, and especially pay attention to comments she has along the way.
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If there is not sufficient time to finish in one sitting, take the pages away, and make arrangements to finish later.
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Do not allow her to take the pages off to some other location where she can study and rehearse her fake performance.
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You need to see her reactions to reading this material while unprepared for how she "feels" about what she is reading.
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Do not engage in any discussion, but at most take some notes, and say, "We can discuss this after you finish the pages."
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If she can't manage to make it through the pages, then she fails the test and she is not eligible material. Case closed.
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If she gets upset at your request for her to do this, ask her what she's upset about, it's only Scripture.
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Maybe she'll be willing to admit that there are some things in Scripture that she does not accept: IOW she fails, again. Done.
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If she can finish, then see what happens in the discussion phase.
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Go back and discuss the places where she wanted to go over the text.
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It would be good to have a Catholic Commentary on hand to answer any interpretation questions.
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You can save yourself years of problems, conflict, family discord and perhaps separation or worse, by doing this simple exercise.
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You can avoid ruining your life by NOT doing this simple exercise.

You can avoid ruining your life by NOT doing this simple exercise.

Avoid, ruining, Not -- too many negatives there. Getting confusing.
Are you saying that you're just kidding about this exercise?  Everyone wants to avoid ruining his life.