Asking for the third time.....
The words of God, Who is Truth Himself, said: "Amen, amen I say to thee, unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Ghost, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God."
So the only question anyone needs to answer, is: Can a man enter the Kingdom of God without being born again of water and the Holy Ghost?
Yes or no.
The answer is no.
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This is explained by the Church in the quotes I provided. To "enter into the kingdom of God" a man must "be born again of water and the Holy Ghost", which is the sacrament of Baptism. Should the man be forestalled from receiving the sacrament of Baptism by an untimely death, as Saint Thomas Aquinas explained, "such a man can obtain salvation without being actually baptized, on account of his desire for Baptism," because "God, Whose power is not yet tied to visible sacraments, sanctifies man inwardly."
So God said man cannot get to heaven without the sacrament of baptism, you say that you agree that man cannot get to heaven without the sacrament of baptism, then you say the Church explains God, who is Himself, truth, means something other than what He explicitly said.
So that leaves you with four possible conclusions.
1) God did not mean what He said.
2) God erred.
3) The Church erred in her explanation or did not mean what she said.
4) It was not the Church who explained away God's words. - (This is the correct conclusion).
A thing cannot both "be", and "not be" at the same time. Which is to say, God's words cannot say that the sacrament is both necessary and not necessary with the same words.
You agree that God said a man cannot get to heaven without the sacrament, what is it that prompts you to even look for a contradictory explanation?