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Author Topic: When do you start corporal punishment with a child?  (Read 13917 times)

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Re: When do you start corporal punishment with a child?
« Reply #10 on: October 13, 2025, 12:06:18 PM »
The amount of complicated, rocket science, mental gymnastics, new age garbage stuff for disciplining children is too much to handle.


It's not that hard.
Haha that’s true! I do remember my Dad giving me a few whacks, not regularly, I think one time I swore at him the other time I smashed something valuable because I was being silly. I don’t think the smacks improved my behaviour and more than if I’d had a non physical punishment, but I don’t think they traumatised me either! 

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Re: When do you start corporal punishment with a child?
« Reply #11 on: October 13, 2025, 12:07:13 PM »
The person who is "pretending" to leave children at the store....I would strongly advise against this.  First, you can get arrested if someone sees you doing this and calls 911.  Second, my mother did this to me numerous times and to say it destroyed our relationship is an understatement.  It's cruel, it's lying, and it's evil. Third, it's a great opportunity for a predator to grab your child while you are playing out your drama queen fantasies.  


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Re: When do you start corporal punishment with a child?
« Reply #12 on: October 13, 2025, 12:21:18 PM »
The person who is "pretending" to leave children at the store....I would strongly advise against this.  First, you can get arrested if someone sees you doing this and calls 911.  Second, my mother did this to me numerous times and to say it destroyed our relationship is an understatement.  It's cruel, it's lying, and it's evil. Third, it's a great opportunity for a predator to grab your child while you are playing out your drama queen fantasies. 
Ha ha,I got smacked a good one one time right in front of everybody while waiting in line at the register when I was a kid - never did that again, I still remember to this day some odd 60 years later lol. That's all it took for me to never act up ever again in the store. God bless my mom and dad! 

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Re: When do you start corporal punishment with a child?
« Reply #13 on: October 13, 2025, 01:06:34 PM »
The person who is "pretending" to leave children at the store....I would strongly advise against this.  First, you can get arrested if someone sees you doing this and calls 911.  Second, my mother did this to me numerous times and to say it destroyed our relationship is an understatement.  It's cruel, it's lying, and it's evil. Third, it's a great opportunity for a predator to grab your child while you are playing out your drama queen fantasies. 
I kind of agree with you but it would depend on the parent. Sometimes a child can really exhaust you to the point that you will resort to anything. I have a toddler who has just been a total pain while I was shopping with her. However I will utilize distractions like giving her a grocery item to play with or telling her to stop. Obviously she acts out more when she’s hungry or tired. I have also just rushed out the store and told her in the car that was unacceptable. Also, I love online grocery delivery for that reason.

Yes, Karens can call CPS on you if they saw because we live in a gentle parenting culture where you can’t discipline your kids. And agree with the predators. 

It seems like your mom did other things while you were growing up that damaged the relationship with you. So it wasn’t necessarily this store incident but part of it. I can definitely see a parent just being cruel and threatening to leave you in the store without a good reason but it depends on the history of the parent. 

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Re: When do you start corporal punishment with a child?
« Reply #14 on: October 13, 2025, 01:18:26 PM »
Sometimes a child can really exhaust you to the point that you will resort to anything.

Exactly.  It's the lack of strong parenting skills that lead to beatings and other crazy choices that actually don't work.  No wonder why psychopathy is on the rise.