You are in a difficult situation with your parents. Sometimes distance is a good thing to honor them. Sometimes an hour away isn’t always far enough. lol.
You can always work on a farm in summer in the northeast of USA. They provide housing rent free if you work for them. Most is seasonal summer work. Depending on you work, you can work year round and go to school at night. Many local community colleges are paid by the tax payers so student who are residents go for free.
What’s your major in college? Sometimes colleges are too liberal and costly in the long run.
Many young people in our area worked for people and went to school and have their own electrical, plumbing, heating, computer repairs, hair dresser, etc. businesses.