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Author Topic: Should I stop doing Bible study with a Protestant girl?  (Read 40446 times)

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Re: Should I stop doing Bible study with a Protestant girl?
« Reply #10 on: July 02, 2023, 05:37:39 PM »
https://www.ecatholic2000.com/catena/untitled-111.shtml

https://sites.google.com/site/aquinasstudybible/

These 2 sites have plenty of resources from the fathers. I recommend you take a look how they interprete scripture.
You should compare that they say to what the girl has said about Verses she has used against you.

Also since you are still ignorant in these things you should stop seeing the girl. It's putting your faith at risk, your immortal soul is not worth the risk.

Personally I like to stay away from the edge of cliffs even if the ground is stable...

Spend at least a year educating yourself using the works recommend by the people in this thread. Also the douay Rheims bible if the best English version.

Drbo.org free online, there is also an old Douay Rheims bible that has many annotations to debunk protestant claims

https://originaldouayrheims.com/home

However this is written in old english and may be hard to read. Still it's very very useful in debunking protestant. You can always pick a verse and try to read the annotation debunking the protestant interpretation.

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Re: Should I stop doing Bible study with a Protestant girl?
« Reply #11 on: July 02, 2023, 05:39:25 PM »
you know the right answer...

men and women cant be just "friends." 

do the right thing. your salvation is more important than her.

also, if a woman ever calls you a boy things are already off to a bad start. youre a man, not a project for her. walk away.


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Re: Should I stop doing Bible study with a Protestant girl?
« Reply #12 on: July 02, 2023, 06:09:53 PM »
Remove if this isn't allowed.

I (19M) have been doing one-to-one bible study with a Protestant girl (20F) for the past few weeks. She is basically teaching me as she knows a lot more about the bible.

She takes bible verses out of context and uses them to say that Protestantism is right. I'm not well versed in the bible, so sometimes they make me doubt my Catholic beliefs and on one occassion I did (very briefly) think about converting.

For example, she could ask a question and I could answer with a Catholic answer. And then she could say, "how can you say that??? This is God's word. It literally says in the verse....." and I don't have a reply back a lot of the time. I find that she always has the last word in the disagreements as I don't know much about the bible and Catholic doctrine. She listens to and shows interest in my Catholic beliefs but frequently tries to find fault with them. She really does focus more on our differences as opposed to what we have similar and when I pointed this out, she implied that Catholics aren't real Christians. The feeling is that she's trying to convert me but when I asked her what her end goal of the bible study was, she didn't mention conversion. She did mention once that she sees me as her project/mission (or something along those lines, I don't remember the wording).

Some of the stuff we do is beneficial and helpful I think, but a lot of it is stuff mentioned above.

She does show genuine interest in my Catholic beliefs and frequently asks me to tell her more and she types out my answers. She does seem to respect my beliefs so I am very conflicted on this.

I know she sounds like a prick from the description I gave above but she is not hostile at all and is very nice and civil. She called me "a good natured boy" and said she sees a lot of potential in me.

I'm worried this might be a near occasion of sin for me. But I don't think I will leave Catholicism as it's the church Christ founded.

My question is: do I need to put a stop to this bible study or should I talk my concerns over with her? Should I outright ask her if she's trying to convert me? I really like her and she is a really nice person. I don't want to lose her as a friend. I will feel so guilty if I end this after all the hours of preparation and meetings she's put into this. It's kind of like saying to her "you've been wasting your time". I genuinely like meeting her as there isn't really anyone else I can talk to about Christianity. None of my family are practicing Christians.

One half of me is saying end the bible study and the other half is saying continue it but I feel like this side is only saying that for the friendship and because I'm attracted to her and not for a religious reason.

I've been having these concerns since the bible study started but I want to make a decision on it now.
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGVSKByrYzsufIKilFHFUDlvpSYFlSuvT

This playlist is excellent to understand the contradictions with protestants. 

However be warned. He is a dogmatic sedevacantist, this position doesn't have to be dogmatic, and there are several acceptable positions to take in regards to the crisis in the Church.

So for you I only recommend this playlist in particular due to your specific situation. The advice of others in this thread is also good. 

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Re: Should I stop doing Bible study with a Protestant girl?
« Reply #13 on: July 02, 2023, 06:31:15 PM »
Thanks everyone for your answers and I'm sorry for using a swear word in my post.

I'm thinking of telling her later today that I don't want to do bible study with her anymore. I really want to stay friends with her though. Is this ok or should I end all contact?

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Re: Should I stop doing Bible study with a Protestant girl?
« Reply #14 on: July 02, 2023, 06:55:55 PM »
Thanks everyone for your answers and I'm sorry for using a swear word in my post.

I'm thinking of telling her later today that I don't want to do bible study with her anymore. I really want to stay friends with her though. Is this ok or should I end all contact?


If she has no interest in conversion, which I don’t think she does, stay far away! Your faith and your soul is infinitely more important.