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Offline Jaynek

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Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
« Reply #495 on: November 25, 2017, 05:01:26 PM »
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  • THIS is why I call this Anonymous blowhard a cretin.  So, Jaynek, do you really think this buffoon is not capable of abusing his wife?  He's already calling for a "good flogging" for someone who disagrees with him on a theological point.  Heaven help the poor woman who burns his toast.
    I had assumed it was a rhetorical flourish.  If he meant it literally, I suppose it is possible this person could be abusive.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #496 on: November 25, 2017, 05:24:33 PM »
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  • I had assumed it was a rhetorical flourish.  If he meant it literally, I suppose it is possible this person could be abusive.

    Oh, he meant it literally.


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #497 on: November 25, 2017, 05:29:15 PM »
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  • It was merely not a handful of theologians.  This is what was taught in the manuals for priests and in canon law. This was the official teaching. This was also was the common understanding of most people.  I am not aware of any evidence of any Catholic, theologian or not, thinking anything else.  
    I don't recall Anonymous providing any source regarding the issue being taught in manuals, or in canon law. Earlier in the thread, he said he couldn't remember exactly where the information was, so maybe it was found later. 

    I'll go through the thread and get back to you later.

    I was being entirely honest and logical in reminding you of your past liberal views. Just because you don't want to be reminded doesn't mean that it isn't relevant or that it's dishonest. That is uncharitable of you. 

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #498 on: November 25, 2017, 05:30:01 PM »
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  • The above post is mine.
    "It is licit to resist a Sovereign Pontiff who is trying to destroy the Church. I say it is licit to resist him in not following his orders and in preventing the execution of his will. It is not licit to Judge him, to punish him, or to depose him, for these are acts proper to a superior."

    ~St. Robert Bellarmine
    De Romano Pontifice, Lib.II, c.29

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #499 on: November 25, 2017, 05:31:30 PM »
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  • It was merely not a handful of theologians.  This is what was taught in the manuals for priests and in canon law. This was the official teaching. This was also was the common understanding of most people.  I am not aware of any evidence of any Catholic, theologian or not, thinking anything else.  
    I do not see how anyone on this forum has the authority to say they were wrong.  I have repeatedly explained why your argument is logically flawed and unconvincing.  If you actually believe that women are being threatened by people's beliefs on this subject, focus on the  arguments that have some hope of convincing people.

    Theology manuals are STILL NOT CHURCH TEACHING.  Period.  Common understanding is NOT CHURCH TEACHING.  Period.  Probably appeared in the manuals because they merely echoed St. Thomas without questioning.  Similarly, a lot of theologians echoed St. Augustine for about 700 years until the scholastics began questioning some of his positions ... and overturned them.  This too will be overturned.  We need not have "authority" to question something that's short of Magisterial.

    No, you have never explained why the argument is logically flawed.  Closest you came was trying to pretend that "to honor" and "to render honor" were two distinct things.

    Really the only thing that you're accomplishing is encouraging those men who use this position to abuse their wives and to disrespect them and to treat them like garbage.  And, yes, they DO exist.  I know quite a few of them.


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #500 on: November 25, 2017, 05:47:07 PM »
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  • I don't recall Anonymous providing any source regarding the issue being taught in manuals, or in canon law. Earlier in the thread, he said he couldn't remember exactly where the information was, so maybe it was found later.

    I'll go through the thread and get back to you later.

    I was being entirely honest and logical in reminding you of your past liberal views. Just because you don't want to be reminded doesn't mean that it isn't relevant or that it's dishonest. That is uncharitable of you.
    In this thread, one manual was cited.  In another thread, a secondary source compiled multiple sources. here

    My past liberal views have nothing at all to do with this thread.  You committed the fallacy known as poisoning the well.
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    Poisoning the well (or attempting to poison the well) is a type of informal logical fallacy where irrelevant adverse information about a target is preemptively presented to an audience, with the intention of discrediting or ridiculing everything that the target person is about to say.

    Meg I need to stop discussing this with you.  I do not know how much longer I can remain civil to you.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #501 on: November 25, 2017, 05:53:17 PM »
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  • Really the only thing that you're accomplishing is encouraging those men who use this position to abuse their wives and to disrespect them and to treat them like garbage.  And, yes, they DO exist.  I know quite a few of them.
    As I have pointed out, if such men exist, your contributions to the thread are probably encouraging them even more than mine.

    We are just saying the same things to each other over and over again.  If this is really such a dangerous thread, we should just let it die.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #502 on: November 25, 2017, 05:58:54 PM »
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  • Men like Ladislaus have to use so many insults because their agression is so pent up an distorted. This is because you cannot bring yourself to be humble enough to accept the Churchs teaching.
    I don't like this attributing bad motives to each other no matter which side is doing it.  I wish we could just look at evidence and logical arguments without this sort of thing. 


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #503 on: November 25, 2017, 07:22:53 PM »
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  • Ah, yes, we are subjected to lectures on manliness from someone who's too much of a coward to decloak from Anonymity.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #504 on: November 25, 2017, 07:28:46 PM »
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  • I did mean it literally.

    here is why:

    Because you are causing a public scandal by arguing obstinately against Church teaching. A flogging is only a warning. It is not burning. Consider it light.

    Honestly, you really must live a pampered life if you are freaking out over that remark.

    See,  told you, Jaynek.  Unlike yourself, evidently, I can read people very well.  So, how many lashes would you administer to your wife for burning the toast in the morning?  

    If this guy is married, we can be morally certain that the poor woman has been bloodied and turned black and blue a few times.  

    Either that or this is just some wimp's fantasy, and his wife actually pushes him around in real life.   :laugh1:  Maybe that's why he won't reveal himself.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #505 on: November 25, 2017, 07:33:40 PM »
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  • His motive has been made clear by himself. We don't need to expose it. He simply rejects the Church's teaching no matter how much evidence is presented. Because he doesn't like it. Ignorance is no longer an excuse for him

    Way too many Traditional Catholics have an incredibly warped notion of what constitutes "Church teaching".  Some nutjob SVs go so far as to promote even a "negative infallibility" so that if an opinion has appeared in some imprimatured book then it can be considered infallible for all intents and purposes because the Church is incapable of even passively allowing error on a small scale.  Then, on the other hand, you have R&R who believe that we can sift out anything short of solemn pronouncements based on our own assessment of what's Traditional and what isn't.  As with most things, the truth is in between.

    Hey, Anonymous, you don't happen to be Nado, do you?


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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #506 on: November 25, 2017, 08:57:38 PM »
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  • Because you are causing a public scandal by arguing obstinately against Church teaching. A flogging is only a warning. It is not burning. Consider it light.
    One might make a case that flogging is an appropriate punishment for heresy, but that is not the level of teaching involved here.  Permissibility of corporal punishment is not a dogma or even a magisterial teaching.  I doubt there is anything seriously wrong with arguing against it.  
    There is magisterial teaching that a wife must obey her husband but we are merely inferring the permissibility of corporal punishment from that.  

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #507 on: November 25, 2017, 09:00:03 PM »
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  • I am not going to be posting at all on Sunday, so please do not read any significance into any lack of posts from me in this thread tomorrow.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #508 on: November 26, 2017, 01:40:17 PM »
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  • Not very charitable to bring up that. Ever heard of a conversion?

    Too far in the direction of the truth? Not likely....

    :laugh1:  You'd be the FIRST one to bring this up if you ever came to disagree with her on something.  Mark my words.

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    Re: Proper Punishment for a Disobedient Wife
    « Reply #509 on: November 26, 2017, 01:43:40 PM »
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  • You only want to decloak so you can poison the well with ad hominem arguments. THAT is what is cowardly.

    Don't be jealous because I am simply prudent.

    No, you're a coward.  You know that this position will make people think ill of you, so you're afraid to decloak.  Nice try attempting to make this into a virtue.