OP, is this your chapel? If it isn’t, your statement is a harsh, rash judgment. Even if it IS your chapel, it’s still uncalled for. How do you know how almost everyone lives outside of Mass and chapel functions? Unless you speak for yourself and your family…..in which case, name yourself!
This sounds like sin of gossip disguised as a prayer request. 

I took out the phrase "live as Catholics". That was the only over-step I could find in the whole post. The rest was 100% Catholic.
The rest of the post seemed extremely restrained and stuck to facts. And these facts need to be known for the common good. In other words, not detraction.