Author Topic: ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖity (Read 2678 times)

Änσnymσus · « **on:** April 05, 2016, 03:26:22 PM »

This is a hot topic. Not sure if this had been asked before here but what do you do if a close family member comes out gαy and invites your family to their so called wedding?

The other members of your family go along with this. This puts you in a position where you might lose your family in terms of them ignoring you. Can you attend and sit way in back praying rosary With your wife and kids? This is very tricky. How to explain it to kids?

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #1 on:** April 05, 2016, 03:43:50 PM »

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This is a hot topic. Not sure if this had been asked before here but what do you do if a close family member comes out gαy and invites your family to their so called wedding?

You cannot go to a fαɢɢօt wedding under any circuмstances because by going you are showing your approval of the abomination.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #2 on:** April 05, 2016, 03:56:38 PM »

Can't go to the reception either.

Stubborn · « **Reply #3 on:** April 05, 2016, 04:00:15 PM »

If they invite you at all, that equates to you having already failed.

If the kids do not know to stay away, it's because you are not staying away which implies acceptance or compromise. So you need to disown the queers completely and you explain it to the kids in terms they understand - i.e. "we do not go by them" - kids do not need much more explanation, too much explanation can be scandalous to kids.

The queers should know well why you've disowned them, there should be zero doubt in their minds about why you've disowned them and that it would take their conversion, their coming back to the true faith before you will have anything to do with them.

I am guessing that most trads have lost close family members because of persevering in the faith, that's the way it goes. When that happens, it is their fault, not yours.

TKGS · « **Reply #4 on:** April 05, 2016, 04:02:18 PM »

I have already lost two of my siblings to this issue. They aren't ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖs themselves but have friends they consider dear who are and the fact that I clearly disapprove has driven a wedge between us. We communicate exceedingly rarely.

I would never attend such an event nor would I ever acknowledge it. I would not place both names on any Christmas card or other correspondence. I would not invite them to the house as a couple, though, frankly, my invitations to family would never be accepted anyway.

This must be explained to the children in clear and uncompromising terms. I think the failure to explain reality to the children is why so many children of the original SSPX faithful have no problem with a reconciliation with the Modernist Vatican--indeed, many are positively clamoring for it. They really don't know why the SSPX exists as a separate entity (of course, I'm not sure Bishop Fellay really knows why either).

Just be grateful that you do not have to fear having your head removed from your shoulders as was the case of Saint Thomas More for refusing to recognize a divorce and remarriage.

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