It's so tragic how it is so taboo that the idea of the wife obeying her husband is so disdained now. I mean Our Lady perfectly obeyed her most chaste spouse St. Joseph. I mean could not at least some married women think seriously at least about the possibility in theory of obeying their husbands?
I have known a number of good women who listen to and obey their husbands like little saints!
I wish that I could be like that one day...
It certainly is a work in progress though.
It takes a great deal of humility, patience, self-denial, and prayer for this end to become a good wife.
I think that since our society is so against women being docile, we tend to forget ourselves. I can not speak for everyone, but at least for me, I did not even realize I were standing up to those in authority above me, until someone told me so...

God knows we are all trying though, and so the fight goes on!