I don’t blame my husband for anything. I gladly do my task, but when he acts like it should just be done while he sits around all weekend doing nothing but nap, and watch football. While I’m up taking care of everything. I’m gonna get a little upset. That is taking advantage of me, and not thinking of my needs to relax on a weekend too.
I've known a few clowns like that. They put in their 9-5, come home, and then act like they need to be waited on ... when the wife wasn't exactly sitting around doing nothing during that time, but was working hard to take care of the children. Why don't you respectfully talk to him (and not a bunch of anonymous losers on this forum) and tell him how you feel? Maybe he'll just get mad of course, since I don't know him. So perhaps that won't work. But, at the end of the day, offer this suffering up to Our Lord, and you're the one who's going to be rewarded for it. At the end of the day, it's between you and God.