I've known a few clowns like that. They put in their 9-5, come home, and then act like they need to be waited on ... when the wife wasn't exactly sitting around doing nothing during that time, but was working hard to take care of the children. Why don't you respectfully talk to him (and not a bunch of anonymous losers on this forum) and tell him how you feel? Maybe he'll just get mad of course, since I don't know him. So perhaps that won't work. But, at the end of the day, offer this suffering up to Our Lord, and you're the one who's going to be rewarded for it. At the end of the day, it's between you and God.
He’s honestly a great husband on whole. Sometimes he just acts like his dad, but if you met his family you’d be like.”oh my gosh... I get it.” He never had a good dad example except for work hard. I love my father in law, and he actually respects me a lot for what I’d, and my role. BUT his lack of influence as a strong leader for a Catholic household is definitely felt in both houses. My husband is a good man though.
Women don’t fail because of men, and Men don’t fail because of women. Both sexes fail eachother when roles are forgotten. I saw a quote once that was “ marriage isn’t always 100/100. Some days you struggle with your spouse. You suck is up, and pick up that 80/20 because they need you. That’s love.” I couldn’t agree more with it, BUT either gender will find themselves taken advantage of if whoever is dropping their roles continues to do it. Which would lead to feminism, or a discontented husband
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