Maybe my friends were a rare group of women because they were not so superficial.
I think this immature idea among men, leads women to not want to marry at all. But what do I know.
Agreed. Not to mention, to the extent there's any truth in it at all [due to fallen human nature], the flipside would be equally valid:
Line up 100 women and 100 men and 80 men will make 20 women their first choice, disrespecting the other 80 women and making them feel unwanted and settled for.
It's just a simple fact of human nature that looks can attract or not, for both sides. It doesn't necessarily mean that in the end, a good Catholic man or woman will choose their mate based on that alone or even primarily. As Matthew said in an earlier post, life isn't fair. Good looks, brains, money, etc. are not distributed evenly.
But if you try your best to be the best Catholic you can be, and trust in God, He will send you a good spouse, if that is His will for you. Stop blaming things like "the girls just want looks or money. Boo-hoo!"