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Re: Confession and scrupulosity
« Reply #55 on: July 18, 2021, 06:26:40 AM »
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If I don't have a reliable mind I can't ever make a valid confession.
Excellent advice from jvk.

Especially to be like a child.

You are too too much in your mind. Remember the devil traps us through our mind. But Jesus comes close to us if we be like children. It is a problem of our age.

And they brought to him young children, that he might touch them. And the disciples rebuked them that brought them. [14] Whom when Jesus saw, he was much displeased, and saith to them: Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not; for of such is the kingdom of God.

As a good child, trust and obey your Father, the one who stands in lieu of God for you to receive the graces you need.

Confess, Communicate, and be Confirmed. You need all the graces you can get. You especially need the gifts of the Holy Ghost.

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Re: Confession and scrupulosity
« Reply #56 on: July 18, 2021, 08:49:43 AM »
If you remember it later, it's ok to still go to Holy Communion--it's been forgiven, but you HAVE to confess that you forgot one at your next Confession.  
Thank you for your post, it was very helpful. Thanks to everyone else as well. It is very much appreciated. 

However, I have a question in relation to the above. I understand that if you accidentally forgot something in confession, then you should confess it the next time but, my concern is with remembering past mortal sins, whether relatively recently (say a few months ago) or in the distant past. These are mortal sins and I feel compelled to confess them but, my confessor tells me not to confess anything from the past. This is what really is upsetting my scruples. I feel like since, when I try to confess anything from the past and the priest basically shuts me down and says "nothing from the past!" I'm therefore omitting mortal sins (albeit not intentionally; in fact, I strongly desire to confess them). I just want to confess everything I can remember so as to complete the process of reconciliation with God.

I feel like because I'm unable to confess them, they are still with me and I'm not fully absolved or, perhaps, out of trying to be obedient to the confessor and not trying hard enough to explain the situational context, I'm therefore making a sacrilege or something along those lines. 


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Re: Confession and scrupulosity
« Reply #57 on: July 18, 2021, 10:09:40 AM »
I literally just remembered something now that has me extremely concerned. When I made my last General confession a week ago, the priest told me to say "one rosary" that day as a penance. By "one rosary," I assumed he meant five decades of the Joyful Mysteries (since it was Sunday). It just occurred to me that he might have meant the 15 decades and now I'm concerned that I didn't do my penance properly after making that general confession.

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Re: Confession and scrupulosity
« Reply #58 on: July 18, 2021, 10:20:42 AM »
I literally just remembered something now that has me extremely concerned. 
Don't worry about this thing. Being confused or mistaken about your penance would not invalidate your confession. Just pray a whole 15 decade rosary as soon as you can and mention the confusion about the penance to your priest if it still bothers you.

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Re: Confession and scrupulosity
« Reply #59 on: July 18, 2021, 12:43:32 PM »

Thank you for your post, it was very helpful. Thanks to everyone else as well. It is very much appreciated.

However, I have a question in relation to the above. I understand that if you accidentally forgot something in confession, then you should confess it the next time but, my concern is with remembering past mortal sins, whether relatively recently (say a few months ago) or in the distant past. These are mortal sins and I feel compelled to confess them but, my confessor tells me not to confess anything from the past. This is what really is upsetting my scruples. I feel like since, when I try to confess anything from the past and the priest basically shuts me down and says "nothing from the past!" I'm therefore omitting mortal sins (albeit not intentionally; in fact, I strongly desire to confess them). I just want to confess everything I can remember so as to complete the process of reconciliation with God.

I feel like because I'm unable to confess them, they are still with me and I'm not fully absolved or, perhaps, out of trying to be obedient to the confessor and not trying hard enough to explain the situational context, I'm therefore making a sacrilege or something along those lines.

This post is, again, exactly why I came here for help and not a priest. My priest telling me that I can't confess anything from the past was going to eat me alive. Even posting in this thread made me feel alien, I felt like I was cheaply dodging a cross by asking for help. What's done is done and I really appreciate everyone helping me. Please pray for me and all others in this thread, God bless you all.