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At risk of sounding repetitive... lack of social bonds is a frequently ignored reason for why traditional Catholics are so divided. 
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The truth is you'll put up with a lot from your next-door-neighbor that you wouldn't from some anon.  You have to deal with the people in your immediate environment. Even the most obnoxious, Dimond-thumping CI anon is amiable to his divorced boss, his fornicating co-worker, etc.
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They save their vitriol for trads on the Internet who disagree with them.
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Make them live in a community together and they'll figure it out.
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If someone would rather share apartment walls with fαɢs than live next door to someone who sees the crisis differently, that's really all you need to know about them.

You seem to reduce disagreements with trads purely as small things. I've had a ton of disagreements with trads offline over very serious matters. Modesty, no salvation outside the church, women's roles, voting, etc.

I think there is a bit of rose tinted mentality about living in a close community as if what we believe offline is different than what we believe online. I have a hard time believing there are no individuals or families at these churches that you have told your family not to associate with. How is this going to be dealt with in a close community?

I sometime like better living near pagan. It make me feel more better and superior. Think it like being jew but I no have to wear funny hat.