This thread, for those of you who may have forgotten, is a prayer request, not an excuse for theodical speculations. Whatever your theories on Providence are, Cupertino, there is still a family with multiple injured members who would benefit from prayer.
Do you think it would anger God, and show disrespect for His ironclad edicts, if you were to say a quick Hail Mary for this family? Is that your idea of being a Catholic, to ignore the needs of God's children?
And yes, they are victims of the Novus Ordo. In one way or another, we all are. The world is worse off for not having more true Masses said in more places, and for the collapse of Christian culture that followed in the wake of Vatican II. The car accident suffered by this family is just one peculiar instance of the damage done by the Conciliar Church. If you want to ask why this particular family, why now, etc., then that would be a subject for theodicy. The multiform malignacy of Cociliarism is not a subject for theodicy. It is pretty well established.