I went to a novus ordo venue to venerate the incorrupt heart of St. Jean Marie. I think it was back around 2014.
The group running the Saint Jude tour is affiliated with
Treasures of the Church based in Detroit. They frequently bring hundreds of relics around the country; I think (but I'm not sure) that these are from the collection at the
Chapel of Saint Anthony of Padua in Pittsburgh. Yes, years ago shortly before I found Tradition, I attended one of those events, and it was just astonishing. It might even have been one of the prompts through which I found Tradition.
From the schedule, it looks like it's indeed possible to venerate the Relic of Saint Jude while avoiding any NOM. Yet the thing is, many here on
CI might think twice before setting foot in any diocesan location. For that reason, it's too bad that these among the faithful are in effect shut out, as with so much else.