It's okay for me to have an opinion on the subject, though of course it differs from yours. We are all just lay people here with no authority to teach the Catholic Faith. We only have opinions, which we are usually quite proud of, but maybe that's okay. For for the laity, I think that we are quite knowledgeable about the Catholic Faith here on this forum. Few here are new to Catholicism. I've learned a lot here. But we don't have to accept the opinion of another member of the Catholic laity.
We can of course be good examples. It's the true Catholic bishops (what few exist) who have the actual authority to teach and preach the Faith. If you want to teach the Catholic Faith, Nishant Xavier, that's up to you; but we are required to save our own souls first, and that of our families. That's difficult enough. Just my opinion.
Fair enough, Meg. But (1) Evangelizing others is one of the Best things we can do (2) "to work out our own Salvation with fear and trembling" And yes (1) Married People have to take care of their Children etc, (2) but Celibate Men like me have the Right and Duty to Preach the Gospel, Share the Faith, and try to Win Souls for Baptism. As I mentioned, I had a Girlfriend. I met her when we were both working, me in Investment Banking in Bank of New York and she in IT in L&T Infotech. She fell in love with me. We dated for a while. She invited me to Texas after she moved there. We were together for a while, but I broke up with her to consider discerning the Priesthood. I'm still discerning, but I believe the Lord is calling me to to Baptize and Evangelize first for a few years and then, based on how things go, maybe enter the Seminary after a few years or maybe get married. Not sure about that yet. BTW, you asked me some time ago to get a Recommendation Letter from my Parish Priest. I now have that. :) Do you want to see the SS? Maybe in the next post. In the meanwhile, I encourage all Catholics, even married Catholics, to spend at least 2 hours each on Saturday and Sunday Evangelizing Non-Christians, trying to Win Souls (which have Great Rewards in Heaven according to Saint Augustine and Trent and Catholic Doctrine) and lead them to Baptism. But if not, your loss. After 20 years of encouraging other Christians to Evangelize, Ive learnt 90% of Christians don't want to Evangelize. How sad! How much Joy of the Lord they are missing out, as Saint Francis Xavier testified he experienced, while those other Priests he yelled at, who never came to India, never experienced that Joy, many of them may even have been damned and lost their Soul, while Saint Francis Xavier is a Saint.
I want to be Saint Nishant Xavier one day. That is my one ambition in life. I care little about Investment Banking or even being Math Professor in comparison for that. Many Saints have taught us Christians to desire being Saints and Great Saints and then work toward that. The best way to do that is to Evangelize and Baptize Souls.