Well, it doesn't matter anyway as I doubt he'd pursue a Church wedding if he could.

Starting to wonder if he'll pursue a wedding at all.

Before we met this guy, when she started dating, I told her to be wary as a divorced guy shows a lack of commitment to the institution of marriage. Actually, I didn't say be wary, I said date someone else because there are other men.

I also warned her of the financial practicalities that, if the relationship went anywhere and they ever got married to start a family . How would he support her and her children with him when he has 2 children he is making child support payments for?

I said, so what's the point of dating? This can't go anywhere you want to be, but she is not rational, so a year later, here we are.

Thanks for your replies and any prayers anyone offers.

There is not help for it, save prayer at this point.