Update: Not only did the SSPX suggest a novus ordo priest but when I refused to arrange for the novus ordo priest to visit my father the SSPX apparently decided that they would contact him anyways without our asking or my father agreeing to it. 
He just showed up at the hospital unannounced. He was two days late. Father Waters had already been there and my father was already doing better. I wonder what he thought of that and if he reported it back to the SSPX... 
This is truly shameful. I am sorry for the anxiety and trouble you have been given over this, what seems to me, a dereliction of duty on the part of the SSPX priest.
A priest’s absolute first priority should be to go the the rescue of any soul who is tinkering on the edge of life and is willing to receive his ministrations, whatever his affiliation to this or that group within the traditional Catholic movement or even if he hs no affiliation. Such a person may be moreso in need of rescue from eternal danger. Meg says, that is not his job.. But Priesthood is not a job. Priesthood is a heroic sacrifice for the salvation of souls - not just SSPX souls but all lost and abandoned souls. Where is the heroic missionary spirit today?