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Title: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Matthew on July 28, 2019, 06:37:30 PM
Please pray for the repose of the soul of Christopher Gross, who died at age 40 of a heart attack without any warning.

He leaves behind a wife and 6 children, the oldest of whom is 8.

His widow and children live in St. Mary's, KS.

He was an ex-seminarian, who spent some time at St. Thomas Aquinas Seminary about the same time I was there.

Dona ei requiem. Requiescat in pace.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: SeanJohnson on July 28, 2019, 06:53:38 PM
The visiting priest from St. Mary's (Fr. Torzala) made mention of this today.

That's absolutely brutal.

I fear that scenario (almost) more than any other.

I don't remember him, so I am guessing he came after I left.

Anyway, how are they set up financially?  Did he have a life insurance policy?  

If not, has anyone in St. Mary's thought of a GoFundMe page?
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Matthew on July 28, 2019, 07:20:01 PM
It's especially unsettling because Christopher Gross wasn't exactly overweight when I knew him. Now it's true I haven't seen him in about 16 years, but still -- 

Physically speaking he was very average.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Ladislaus on July 28, 2019, 07:25:07 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Miseremini on July 28, 2019, 07:26:36 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Nadir on July 28, 2019, 07:53:38 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Seraphina on July 28, 2019, 07:56:19 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Ladislaus on July 28, 2019, 08:33:49 PM
Despite it being a bit of a burden, I carry a very substantial amount of life insurance, which runs out when my youngest turns 18.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Incredulous on July 28, 2019, 08:38:02 PM

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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Quo vadis Domine on July 28, 2019, 08:49:46 PM
Despite it being a bit of a burden, I carry a very substantial amount of life insurance, which runs out when my youngest turns 18.
This is important.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Quo vadis Domine on July 28, 2019, 08:50:20 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: donkath on July 28, 2019, 10:19:07 PM


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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Viva Cristo Rey on July 29, 2019, 01:31:54 AM
So sad. May he Requiescat in pace.  Our prayers are with the family too. 

Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Stubborn on July 29, 2019, 06:46:22 AM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: poche on July 29, 2019, 08:20:49 AM
May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen.
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: MrsMegafin on July 30, 2019, 05:53:36 AM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: forlorn on July 30, 2019, 04:04:35 PM
God rest him and bless his family in these trying times for them.  :pray:
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: SeanJohnson on July 31, 2019, 03:10:52 PM
I received word that there is now a GoFundMe page set up for this beautiful family:

https://www.gofundme.com/f/katie-gross-and-kids?fbclid=IwAR1DqJliZL23eMq1TLiCFJ0sfh8KMPXD_GGlBbEZnqXT7TpuMe3tj1tATa0 (https://www.gofundme.com/f/katie-gross-and-kids?fbclid=IwAR1DqJliZL23eMq1TLiCFJ0sfh8KMPXD_GGlBbEZnqXT7TpuMe3tj1tATa0)
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: SeanJohnson on July 31, 2019, 08:24:30 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: SeanJohnson on August 01, 2019, 03:54:31 PM
Final charitable bump.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: confederate catholic on August 01, 2019, 07:05:26 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: AGeorge on August 01, 2019, 07:23:00 PM
I remember him well. I used to sit next to him in study hall. He was a model seminarian from what I could observe.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: SeanJohnson on August 01, 2019, 10:24:12 PM
It is an admittededly emotional inspiration that causes me to have trouble disengaging from this tragedy.

I never heard of this family, but in my private life, I have always had a fear that, if God took me early, what would become of my family?

Yes, I have a life insurance policy, but that money will not help my wife or children get to heaven.

I have always harbored a hope that if I gave to people at my own expense, maybe God and Our Lady would have mercy on a wretch like me and, for my family's sake, help them in my absence.  

And I have always harbored the opposite fear, that if I did not give something to those who were in need, then if I died, what right would I have to expect God and Our Lady to extend a hand to my family?

I think about the widow's mite, and see many donating $20 or $25, and my faith in fraternal charity is somewhat restored.  

They said they would have a Mass said for anyone who could help in any way (prayer or otherwise), and that is a rich dividend.

I'm going to let this go now, but my heart and prayers go out to them.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: homeschoolmom on August 02, 2019, 07:41:00 AM

There is also a FB fundraiser that was up to 16K last time I saw it.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Ladislaus on August 02, 2019, 08:56:44 AM
I never heard of this family, but in my private life, I have always had a fear that, if God took me early, what would become of my family?

Yes, I have a life insurance policy, but that money will not help my wife or children get to heaven.

If God took you early, then He has the best interest of not only you but your family in mind in terms of your eternal salvation.
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: SeanJohnson on August 02, 2019, 09:05:19 AM
If God took you early, then He has the best interest of not only you but your family in mind in terms of your eternal salvation.
True.  I lose track of that sometimes.  Thank you for that reminder!
Title: Re: Prayers for repose of soul - Trad young father of 6
Post by: Nadir on August 02, 2019, 09:23:41 PM
If God took you early, then He has the best interest of not only you but your family in mind in terms of your eternal salvation.
So true! God knows what is best.